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Dealing with a breakup of 6 year relationship
Relationship Stress / by philosophicalScarf2181
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 April 14th, 2025
...See more I had this breakup about 3 months ago it was not very dramatic. We faught about something and he left me over a text saying his parents won't approve of me so we can't get married so he's breaking up with me. He also said it was my fault that he's actually breaking up because I screamed at him while I told him that he was making me feel dumb and small again and again and I was the one giving most of the efforts. He told me about his parents before and I suggested he would breakup multiple times but he didn't and he made me feel like he was so serious about me and I had hope that he would somehow convince his parents for marriage. I slept with him after like 4-5 years of being with him. And now that he have broke up me I can't get this out of my head that I got physical with him and it meant nothing for him while it was very meaningful to me. I feel devastated over this little thing so much so that I can't focus on anything else. I wasted my time, efforts, feeling everything over this relationship and he left me over a text and moved on in 2 months here I am feeling like dying everyday. This thing is really impacting my daily life I'm always irritated and fight with my family but I don't want to. I want to feel happy again be free of this guilt and hurt. How do I do it?
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Hello new here, do family relationship counts
Relationship Stress / by philosophicalScarf2181
Last post
 December 9th, 2024
...See more I'm frustrated with my family almost everyday. My brother lie around all day without doing anything while I complete all the chores my mother and father are working. This has been going on for a while now and this situation have triggered me to think that my brother is better than my in any scenario. My mother defend my brother all the time she's more happy with him in general and I'm not saying she don't love me just not more than my brother. I always take my mother stand in any argument with my father, I fight for her because my father once cheated on her and I can never forgive him for that but my mother never ever think of things that I do as something that matters yet I over exert myself to get my mother to like me or be her favourite but ik I can never do that. All of it frustrates me so much and idk what to do.
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