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Pregnant and stressed
Relationship Stress / by pluckyPear9306
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 November 24th, 2021
...See more Hello, I’m new to this thread. i just wanted to share what I’m going through and how can I overcome. i just recently found out I’m pregnant by my ex who no longer really wants to deal with me at all because of our past history well he pretty much blames it all on me because I cheated and lied and talked to guys throughout the relationship. This year and last year I’ve been trying to get back with him but the trust is gone and I’m not really sure what to do? im thinking I’m going to end up being a single mom. He’s pushing me to do an abortion but I don’t really believe in that and I got family and his family willing to help me. He thinks I’m not fit to raise my first kid. I understand all this was unexpected but this will change my whole life. I made a few mistakes and i learned from them. This is much bigger and definitely a learning lesson.
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Relationship Stress / by pluckyPear9306
Last post
 October 8th, 2019
...See more I been with this guy for four years and I met someone at my job and had sex with him. I admitted it to my ex boyfriend as of now and he had came home while I was talking to his mom and he actually pushed me down on the table and I got back up and tried to get my stuff to leave. He pushed me and his mother on the ground outside and started to get on top of me and punching me in my face , arm and shoulders. I was fighting back (self defense). I still love him and he had said he loved me. It was a lot of stress that day. I drove home crying to my parents and trying to tell them what happened. I was in shock. The police finally came and I filed a report of abuse on him and now he has court and could go to jail. Is is crazy that I wanna be with him? I love him even thought he put his hands on me. He has never done this before.
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