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I don't want to move on
Relationship Stress / by plumPomegranate3635
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 May 12th, 2017
...See more Hey there everyone! I hope someone can help me out a little. I currently in sort of an odd situation. My girlfriend and I were together for about a year and it seemed to be going really well. We were going to move to another state together and we would often talk about a very happy future together. Suddenly though, she broke up with me. She gave me a bunch of reasons that didn't seem to make sense, but ultimately said that she felt like she wasn't in love anymore. I was devastated and confused. To be honest, I'm still not really sure what led to her losing feelings. After the breakup, she started seeing a new guy about 2 weeks later. Her mom talked to me and said that she has no idea why she's into him and she seems to be acting very unlike herself. It's been about 2 1/2 months since the breakup. We haven't spoken since she called me and told me about the new guy. She told me that she still loved me, but she didn't seem to have interest in getting back together. It was cconfusing. In the same conversation, she told me she loved me and wanted me to be happy, but would then get very frustrated and yell at me to move on. It's been difficult to say the least. I've been trying to handle things in a healthy way. I cut off contact soon and began spending a lot of time with old and new friends. I've started learning the guitar and I've been picking up a lot of new hobbies. Honestly, my life it pretty good right now. I had been trying to not think about her for the last few weeks, but now I've thought about it and I'm still just as in love as I was before and I think we should be together. She was the girl I loved, but also my best friend. I know that we are better together than apart, but she seems to have lost sight of that. I'm not really sure what to do now. All I know is that I love her and I have to try, for my own sake. Any thoughts or advice would be helpful :)
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