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politeKite2933
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Weird breakup
Relationship Stress / by politeKite2933
Last post
 September 21st, 2021
...See more Ok so had a breakup last year but we continued to talk basically like we never broke up for a year (one of those that even though I was done wrong a lot, I tried to hold on to) and finally after being ignored for a long time, one day I asked for my things back (just a note I was a sucker who was very supportive and a few days was manageable. But 3 weeks was too much). The person got mad and said I was being hostile (said it super nicely, didn’t demand and even confirmed I’d send the money ahead of time) and never messaged me back. Why do I feel remorse for doing what I did? I miss the person sure but again. It was clear I was giving 9000% effort. Do I reach back out or say screw it?
Weird breakup/even more confusing “ending”
Relationship Stress / by politeKite2933
Last post
 May 16th, 2021
...See more So I was dating someone for about two years. It was a very up/down relationship where when it was good it was amazing but when it was bad (she did some things that I always forgave) it was awful. We got through all that all for COVID and distance to have her call it off last year. For a year after that we kept in touch, sometimes talked about being together again. Up until a few months ago when she got busy and stopped texting as much. I stayed supportive but eventually grew tired of waiting especially when I found out she definitely had time I was just on the back burner. I texted a mutual friend to retrieve some things for me and after not hearing from her for 3 weeks she immediately texted me angrily saying she’ll send my stuff. It’s been 2 weeks since then and now I’m wondering if I should cut my losses or reach out again? Side note: she’s done a lot that I forgave and my one “mess up” in the relationship was not paying rent in a place because of job problems/low key a little anger for how I was being treated.
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