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politeLunch141
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Personality Disorders Support / by politeLunch141
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April 1st, 2023
...See more i rely on her a lot I feel almost overbearing and annoying sometimes but I can’t stop. I often find myself making personalized gifts for her which are most often paintings or I’ll buy stuff that reminds me of her although I often don’t ever give her these things because I get to nervous . Recently her and my other friends have pointed out that im “in love with her” or “obsessed with her” and maybe I am but I don’t want or mean to come off that way. I know their joking but every time they say it I get so afraid that she’s gonna leave me or get uncomfortable and not wanna be around me. I rely on her so much and if she leaves I don’t know what will happen. Also she’s graduating soon and going away which is also a source of worry for me I just don’t know how to handle this.
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Personality Disorders Support / by politeLunch141
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October 25th, 2022
...See more I’ve found that throughout my life I always have someone I have almost an extreme desire to be around and do everything in my power to please. I don’t know why this happens but it does I always worry about them liking me and caring about me and find myself almost following them around at school and practices. There always one of my friends and normally someone older than me but I find myself putting this person on a pedestal and giving them gifts and stuff I don’t know why I do this but I was just wondering if anyone else experiences this feeling or knows how to help thank you!
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