Extreme attachments to people
I’ve found that throughout my life I always have someone I have almost an extreme desire to be around and do everything in my power to please. I don’t know why this happens but it does I always worry about them liking me and caring about me and find myself almost following them around at school and practices. There always one of my friends and normally someone older than me but I find myself putting this person on a pedestal and giving them gifts and stuff I don’t know why I do this but I was just wondering if anyone else experiences this feeling or knows how to help
thank you!
@politeLunch141 Attachment is something that occurs when people need to feel safe. The feeling of insecurity may be coming from our childhood. It is deep and challenging to cope with. So we constantly feel that we need support by someone else. It can happen to anyone dear but it may be something to address in order to improve your relationship with people. Please don't hesitate to get in touch with a listener or therapist and talk further about it. We're all here for you! Thank you for sharing your story.
