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powerfulPlane2700
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PathStep 31 Compassion hearts15 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes2 Current upvotes2 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2021 Member sinceJanuary 16, 2021
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Break up
Relationship Stress / by powerfulPlane2700
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September 21st, 2021
...See more I’m in a weird place right now, my ex of 2.5 years recently broke up with me. We were a great couple, we complimented eachother greatly and we were about to move in together. She broke it off because she felt that she could be happier with a more outgoing person. I’m outgoing when I get to know someone but she feels I am not out going enough. However, after around a week of being broken up and not contacting her I feel content with the situation meaning of she comes back I’ll be ecstatic but if she doesn’t I’ll be happy to see if another girl is right for me. Is this okay, does this mean I dint really love my ex? Is this just subconscious pride? It’s confuses me that someone so important to me right now would be so meaningless to me.
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Break up
Relationship Stress / by powerfulPlane2700
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September 13th, 2021
...See more So me and my gf of 2.5 years broke up. I’m actually okay with the break up. I really did love her and I feel we made a great team together for a future family but she feels she’s needs someone more exactly like her ie super outgoing. I’m not shy but I’m also not going to stand up In front of a whole room of people and do something silly. My anxiety comes from feeling that I’ll never find someone better for me. To further this feeling I’m moved back to our area after awhile away and all my friends were friends through my relationship. So on top of the feelings of a normal break up,I’m feeling like everything of meaning in my life is gone. I’m just wondering if anyone else has had this situation and how they were able to get out of the rut and find new friends and partners as well as dealing with the loneliness of the initial few days after the break up when you have literally nothing to lean on besides family.
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