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proactiveCherry3853
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Is she self-absorbed?
Friendship Support / by proactiveCherry3853
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 October 2nd
...See more I hate to write this because this feels like back *** but tbh i dont know what else to do, i dont have the courage to talk to her directly as this can ruin our friendship and she is like the only friend i have and also, i dont think she’ll improve. So basically, i have a bsf for 3 years and i think that sometimes she can be full of herself, she doesn’t really value my efforts. 2 years ago she told me that no one has ever gifted her roses and i did not know where to find em so i MADE origami roses for her just to hear the same statement 2 days later, and when i told her that i gave you hand-made roses, she says its different, they werent even real. Similarly, she lives far from me and i jokingly ask her what she’ll gift me on my birthday (which is the wuestion she starts asking 1 month before her birthday btw), she said you didnt even give me anything on my birthday and i felt so bad because i posted 4 stories, one whole post dedicated to her on her birthday, a usual letter and i made a whole freaking website to wish her happy birthday which took me more than 15 days to make and to hear that sentence really hurt after all these efforts. And another incident, when i first got my iphone 17 pro, i was over the moon because i always wanted it. She was the first person whom i told about it. I was literally jumping out of excitement and when i sent her the pic and told her that i got a new iphone all she said was ‘its nice’ and it really breaks me that im always happy for her but that’s her reaction for the thing i was so excited about.
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