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proactivePapaya1924
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Moving past
Relationship Stress / by proactivePapaya1924
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 July 4th, 2020
...See more I've been broken up with my ex now since Christmas 2018. However I still can't shake him from my mind. Our break up was sudden for me, in the end we were in a rough patch as he was dealing with his own demons such as problems with addiction and mental health. I was there for him however in the end I let myself care more for taking care of him and let myself go downhill and got into a dark place. I think the break up was needed even though it was something I never wanted. I am writing here for help, I have give myself time to grieve the relationship, try to date other people and kept myself occupied with friends and family. I have been doing all the "right" things to get over a relationship however whenever I see or hear of him the pain I feel is unbearable. The tears come and my anexity peaks. I am not sure what else I should be doing to help myself move on. Please help.
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Hard time
Depression Support / by proactivePapaya1924
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 December 27th, 2018
...See more Hi there, I recently moved to abroad with my boyfriend after a very rough time between us. The last year has been very hard on both of us, he is dealing with a porn addiction and last March cheated on me with a porn star. He confessed to me after trying to take his life over the thought of loosing me. We stayed together and he did end up in hospital another time. Moving away with him was hard on me as it was a new country with no friends, work or routine that I need to keep me well. I reached out for help but the counselled was so full I only got in once. Last week I tried to commit suicide and two days later when I was back home my boyfriend left me. He says he doesnt care about me and that I was a horrible girlfriend. We did fight a bit the past few months but he was not working and never showed me any sexual affection with his addiction. I just felt so alone and it got the best of me. I just cant believe he left me when I needed him the most, yesterday was so hard I stayed in bed all day. I miss him. I just need help to get over this
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