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purpletapeworm16
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Getting dumped 4 times by the same person
Relationship Stress / by purpletapeworm16
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 February 27th, 2021
...See more I've been with this guy for 2 years now, and things were amazing at the start. Then the pandemic happened and we started LDR. Things were stable at first and then he said he wanted to break up. Out of the blue. He didn't state a reason, just that I deserved better. I didn't handle it well. I cried and begged and he took me back. It happened a total of 4 times now. I know this is toxic and stuff, but I have some sort of emotional attachment to him and I can't imagine life without him. He apologizes later saying he was just angry and he took it out on me. I don't know what to do, or what to feel. Any advice would be helpful.
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Help me pls
Relationship Stress / by purpletapeworm16
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 February 8th, 2021
...See more I've been with this guy for like 2 years now. And since the pandemic we've been doing LDR. I've noticed that he's very moody. Like one moment things are amazing and the next he's ignoring me. I never directly asked him cause I didn't want to make him mad or uncomfortable. Whenever I subtly bring it up he changes the topic. This whole hot and cold thing has been happening for months and everytime it hurts more and more. What do I do? I love him alot and I wanna be there for him.
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I just want him to care about me again
Relationship Stress / by purpletapeworm16
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 December 31st, 2020
...See more I have bpd and this guy who i've been with for 2 years is my coping mechanism. It's like i need him to feel okay. My mood and emotions depend on him. A few months back he dumped me out of the blue and i did not take it well. But shortly after he wanted to get back together and i agreed cause i relied on him mentally, I really thought things were gonna be better. And they were until a few days ago, he said he wanted to break up and he didn't love me, want me, need me or care about me. It was very random and i didn't even know how to feel. And the worst part is that after he said all those things i was the one who apologized and begged him for another chance. A few hours later he said he wanted to talk and i did cause i was desperate at that point and he said he wanted to try again but he didn't apologize for what he said. We talk like before now but i just can't make myself adjust or cope to what he said. And our conversations are really dry now and it doesn't feel too good. And i just want things to be normal and for him to care about me again. I don't know what to do
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