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Just lost, a really great job. Not sure what to do now, I
Relationship Stress / by resourcefulTree9811
Last post
 July 23rd, 2019
...See more Hi, this is gonna be kinda long so Im sorry, I kinda just need to vent. Today I got fired from what I would consider the best job, in my area I could have had. Luckily I got to end it on good terms with the company seeing I loved every moment I spent there. But thats also the reallt hard part. I have no idea what Im going to do now. I just graduated and live on my own with my boyfriend. I loved this job because it worked with both our schedules, they were always flexible with me, and I really liked working with the other employees there. I got paid reallt decent money, and I also enjoying the job too. Like I even applied for a second job within the company, because I enjoyed it so much. Im legit just a mess up. I cant do anything right and made some bad mistakes before my 1 year employee review (Bad as in I accidentally swore in front of a head lady on our companys board, I had no clue who she was and wasnt swearing at her. She just heard me. and then I made other small mistakes after that. Just small mistakes everyone makes but the first one really messed it up for me.) like I cant even control my emotions enough to not cuss. I was even tearing up as they fired me. Long story short. I feel like such a failure. I loved this job so much and now Ill never be able to go back or do anything. I have no idea what Im going to do now but I need a job. I know I have no motivation to go get one and will hate anything else. Im just scared that I might loose everyhing because Im a screw up.
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Relationship Stress / by resourcefulTree9811
Last post
 July 21st, 2019
...See more ive been in this relationship 2 years, and its not that he doesnt care for me. As well, hes never done anything other then yell at me, and Ive yelled at him. So weve NEVER gotten physical. Hes a good man, and I love him. We just cant stop fighting. We seemingly argue over nothing, and its so quick and next think you know err yelling. Some really common things involve his job, and my job. An the fact that I have severe ptsd and cannot drive. We argue about him having to give a ride, or sometimes I accidentally start it by asking him to do something around the house. ive tried everytime to come from a place of understanding not anger, but often I dont get the same. Ive tried everything it feels like from giving him space, to trying to Just let him talk, to having a mediator. I feel like Ive tried everything and it never works. We just keep yelling and having miscommunication. Im a very loud and communication based person where he is not. So it can be harder for him to convey his emotions. Where I am quite the opposite. So basically. If anyone has information on how to, help commutation? To help at all. Ill take it at this point. Im just so gernerally tired and defeated. I have other mental health issues besides this certain topic so this just brings a lot more stress. So any help would be appreciated - newbie
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