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User Profile: resourcefulTree9811
resourcefulTree9811 July 21st, 2019

ive been in this relationship 2 years, and its not that he doesnt care for me. As well, hes never done anything other then yell at me, and Ive yelled at him. So weve NEVER gotten physical. Hes a good man, and I love him. We just cant stop fighting.

We seemingly argue over nothing, and its so quick and next think you know err yelling. Some really common things involve his job, and my job. An the fact that I have severe ptsd and cannot drive. We argue about him having to give a ride, or sometimes I accidentally start it by asking him to do something around the house.

ive tried everytime to come from a place of understanding not anger, but often I dont get the same. Ive tried everything it feels like from giving him space, to trying to Just let him talk, to having a mediator. I feel like Ive tried everything and it never works. We just keep yelling and having miscommunication. Im a very loud and communication based person where he is not. So it can be harder for him to convey his emotions. Where I am quite the opposite.

So basically.

If anyone has information on how to, help commutation? To help at all. Ill take it at this point. Im just so gernerally tired and defeated. I have other mental health issues besides this certain topic so this just brings a lot more stress. So any help would be appreciated - newbie

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