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ruzelac
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Moving on
Relationship Stress / by ruzelac
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 March 24th, 2019
...See more It has been almost 6 months since my boyfriend of almost 3 years and I broke up. I am very glad we split, especially afterwards finding out a bunch of stuff he did behind my back (gets drunk, talks to other girls, smokes weed). However, there is still not a day that goes by where hes not on my mind. Its senior year of HS and thankfully we have no classes together, but apart of me constantly wants to know what hes up to. I run into his family at the gym sometimes, and each time I do I just become saddened and reminisce memories. I thought I was completely moved on, but apart of me misses him. Im talking to other guys trying to move on but hes still in the back of my mind. Ive never made contact with him since the breakup... and Im afraid if I do itll just make things worse. Any advice?
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High school breakup
Relationship Stress / by ruzelac
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 December 22nd, 2018
...See more About a month ago, my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me. We are both seniors in high school and he broke up with me because he wanted to focus on college. I totally understand that, (he wants to be a lawyer) and I was fine with remaining friends as he wanted. however, recently I have found out he did a ton of things behind my back and continues to do so....definitely not focusing on college lol. He gets drunk, hangs out with other girls/hits on them, and smokes/vapes. While we were together, I never. Ever. Saw this side to him. I am now questioning if I even know him. It is very hard looking at him now and still try to remain friends, despite what hes done. We have no classes together which is a relief, but he never leaves my mind. I feel like I have a constant need to check his Instagram which is a bad habit. It is very hard to move on and see him go down this path but Im not sure what to do. We are both on the bowling team and I hate seeing him there, but apart of me misses him. Any advice?
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