Moving on
It has been almost 6 months since my boyfriend of almost 3 years and I broke up. I am very glad we split, especially afterwards finding out a bunch of stuff he did behind my back (gets drunk, talks to other girls, smokes weed). However, there is still not a day that goes by where hes not on my mind. Its senior year of HS and thankfully we have no classes together, but apart of me constantly wants to know what hes up to. I run into his family at the gym sometimes, and each time I do I just become saddened and reminisce memories. I thought I was completely moved on, but apart of me misses him. Im talking to other guys trying to move on but hes still in the back of my mind. Ive never made contact with him since the breakup... and Im afraid if I do itll just make things worse. Any advice?
@ruzelac
He was a big part of your life and you perhaps miss the good aspects of what you shared. I guess the best thing to do is to remind yourself that you're not with him for very good reasons. Reasons strong enough that you are glad you split up. That might help you overcome the moments of weakness.