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saloumah
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hey, my name is sal I like to draw and buy cute clothes :)

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Do i really look like this?
Self-Esteem / by saloumah
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May 16th, 2024
...See more TW: talk about body image and appearance  i got contacts recently the clear kind. And i when i wore glasses i guess things looked smaller? when i wore the contacts i immediately noticed how much larger my eyes actually were but then i also noticed how everything else was larger too. including my body. I already have a lot of issues with how in view myself if i’m even cute or pretty. struggling with my appearance was already bad bur i spent today going back and fourth between mirrors in disbelief. I look the same but at the same time disgusting to myself. “was i a,ways like this?” i mean i knew what i looked like but it just if this is accurate to what i really look like i’m a bit horrified. i feel ugly worst part is i don’t eat badly i don’t do much exercise pr anything but i know plenty lazy people who domt look alike me. it’s genes, everyones different . i want to work out i want to be confident i want to be proud of what i have. this was just such a horrible wake up call i don’t know how to go about this.
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I have dysphoric feelings over not my gender but my body parts???
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by saloumah
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March 10th, 2023
...See more For like ever i've felt very lost and confused. I talked to counsellors and therapists about this and it made me really uncomfortable because they kept saying all women felt like this in their life sometimes. But i don't really think so ive felt like this for so so long. I dont like my genitals like at all they make me so uncomfortable. everytime im reminded of them i feel gross. Sometimes i would have very randomly depressing days where i would describe it as feeling "womanly" or "pregnant" this was when i was in elementary school by the way LOL. and i don't know if anyones ever really experienced this that i know of? I'm okay with being a woman im comfortable like that but i hate having genitals i dont want them. I would sometimes wish for a males genitals or feel like i would secretly have one, i just had to wait. Other times i would wish for no genitals at all. i know its really confusing but i just want to be heard a bit. I feel kind of wrong for feeling like this at all like ive never even heard of this myself.
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