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Can you love someone & not want to marry them?
Relationship Stress / by scarletHouse8710
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 October 10th, 2022
...See more I’ve been dating my bf all throughout my undergrad years (4 years). Now, I’m graduated and moving to a new city for a job. He wants to move in with me but I’m not sure if I’m ready for that. He also says he sees himself spending his life with me. He’s my first real, serious boyfriend and the first person I’ve ever loved. He’s my best friend and I don’t think anyone has understood me and cares for me the way that he does. I find myself getting often sad because I feel so immature and like I don’t know what I want out of my life, let alone out of a man I’m gonna spend the rest of my life with. He’s the greatest person I’ve ever known and I can’t picture my life without him. But I genuinely don’t know if I want to marry him. He says continuing our relationship is contingent on me wanting to move in together, or he doesn’t want to waste anymore time, no matter how much we love eachother bc moving in = commitment. I really don’t want to lose him and I can see myself marrying him but there’s also issues like cultural barriers and the fact that I jsut feel so young right now. Am I crazy for the way that I feel?
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