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...See more Hey guys, I need advice and I’m hoping yall do not judge me because I’m trying to change. I’m 19 years old and I have met a guy online who I really like & we’ve been talking for about 2 weeks now & now we’re supposed to be seeing each other in person soon. He’s very sweet treats me well & is just overall very nice but I’ve been lying to him. I have used others pictures and put my face on their body to make me feel better about my body so it motivates me to lose weight but it got out of control & I started to post it on social media (for most likely validation because I’m insecure) and now I’m kind of in a hole with him because of it. I am bigger than the girls in the pictures I used and I tried to tell him I was fatter & I wanted to wait to meet up because I wanted to get my body right and he always reinsured me that I wasn’t & told me if I was he doesn’t care because there are plus sized women in his family and I can just lose weight if I want to..but I knew I was fat and still felt insecure. I showed him my body on FaceTime a few hours ago and he’s been skeptical since & says he doesn’t care about that and just wants to know if I’ve been putting my face on others body. I’ve lied out of fear and said I didn’t but I’m sure he knows something is up. I want to tell him the truth but I’m not sure how to go about this..please help.

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