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shyBike1273
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Navigating sex when asexual?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by shyBike1273
Last post
 August 30th
...See more I am somewhere on the asexual spectrum, I think.  My partner has been unhappy when we don't have sex much, but also says it's fine if we never do it?  The mixed messaging is making it hard for me to navigate.  I am trying to find more desire, but it has been difficult due to my situation.  They're upset if I do have sex and am not 100% into it, but they're also unhappy if I decline it.  I'm just nervous and feeling pretty stuck.
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How to feel more comfortable sharing with my spouse?
Relationship Stress / by shyBike1273
Last post
 August 28th
...See more They get upset when I am feeling bad and say it's all their fault.  If I seek help, they feel threatened by it.  They apologize later, but I'm expected to get over it immediately.  They get upset when I turn to online resources because I don't have many friends.  How can I build resilience and share my problems with them and not be impacted by their response?  They say it will get better, but idk, it's gone a little better over the years, but not by much.  I believe it is going to be better in the future, but I still have this worry that hangs on 
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