Navigating sex when asexual?
I am somewhere on the asexual spectrum, I think. My partner has been unhappy when we don't have sex much, but also says it's fine if we never do it? The mixed messaging is making it hard for me to navigate. I am trying to find more desire, but it has been difficult due to my situation. They're upset if I do have sex and am not 100% into it, but they're also unhappy if I decline it. I'm just nervous and feeling pretty stuck.
@shyBike1273
You've found yourself in a difficult situation.
Your partner cannot say they are happy to not have sex but then also say they want more of it.
You need to be honest as difficult as it is, with what you want to do and if you genuinely are not enjoying it, it's your choice and right always to not engage and you might have to reconsider if this relationship is for you, as difficult as that might be
You should never feel shame for how you feel 💛
