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weird conflict with my mom
Family & Caregivers / by sincereSky93
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 January 29th, 2022
...See more this is gonna sound very weird. i have an incredibly loving, caring and supportive mother, and i know i'm very very blessed. however, we tend to argue.. this has lessened a lot as i've grown older (i'm 21 now) but there's something that causes conflict that is going to sound kinda weird on text. so, my mom is very affectionate physically and we hug and kiss each other a lot, which is great. however, sometimes she starts tickling me, and i'm really bad at controlling my hands when i'm tickled, can't help it. so i often end up hurting her, like accidentally squeezing her arm too hard or usually one of my nails scratches her (she has really sensitive skin so even a slight scrape shows on her skin) and then she gets upset. today this happened for probably the 20th time (at least) and i feel horrible and incredibly frustrated after because i'm always begging her to stop while she's doing it and every time i end up scratching her. we always get into a huge fight afterwards where i end up being rude because i'm so frustrated and then she yells that she's sorry and i get frustrated because it's my fault not hers and i obviously don't want an apology i just want her to stop tickling me when i'm asking her to please stop. this has happened so many times now... i know this probably sounds ridiculous, but since i often end up hurting her a little and i feel terrible about myself it's serious. we've had this conversation so so many times where she says she'll stop but she eventually does it again.
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