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squirrel4364
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Needing to be alone in hard times, negative or normal?
Relationship Stress / by squirrel4364
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 December 11th, 2025
...See more Hey everyone. I’m here for a relationship topic but I want to really just get objective answers from everyone. Is it normal that my partner needs alone time when he’s going through something hard? Something irrelevant to me. I just don’t understand why you wouldn’t lean back on your partner. I don’t want to start faulting myself because I know I’m a supportive and empathetic partner. Is it just a him thing? Do I need to stop seeing it as a negative thing? Or is it actually a negative thing? I don’t know.i know I don’t have the right to get mad at him for this. I’m just so just concerned, am I not providing the space he needs. Am I just a bad partner? What do you guys think about people not leaning back on their partners heavily when they’re in a rough spot? We’re in a long distance relationship and throughout his rough patch I’ve just been there consistently and just kept myself mellow in the aim of keeping him mellow too. This is one of the dialogues we had about this, very briefly. But idk I think my own attachment style is making me worry that his is different. Me: I’m sorry if I haven’t been there for you in the way that you’ve needed my love. Him: You've done more than enough. I've been the one not holding it down for us
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ADHD or am I just chaotic?
ADHD Support / by squirrel4364
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 December 21st, 2025
...See more Hey everyone So I’m not really looking for a diagnosis, more so just like honest advice? So for as long as I can remember I’ve had a jumpy brain. Always on the go. I’m down? It’s on the go. I’m happy it’s on the go. I’ve always been good with getting big tasks done, like I’ll do the dishes but will leave the cabinet doors open. I’ll finish a 10 page paper but won’t turn it in or will forget to write my name. I can speak 4 languages fluently but can’t tell my left from my right. Now I know all these things could just be me? They could just be me being forgetful or whatever. But are these things in me at the same time a sign of me having adhd?
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