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straightforwardThinker4420
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Am I being tested?
Depression Support / by straightforwardThinker4420
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 June 18th, 2024
...See more I feel like I'm repeating the same cycle with my relationships. I attract men with similar qualities to my ex, and I'm trying to understand if I'm doing something wrong. My ex used to drink, and my current partner doesn't, but he has a bad temper. They have similar work, ways of thinking, and responses to things like therapy. I sometimes feel he regrets rushing into marriage because of all the changes and responsibilities. This makes me question our relationship a lot. I'm tired of repeating myself, and his refusal to seek therapy makes me feel like our relationship is sinking. I no longer crave intimacy, and his constant attention to his phone over me hurts. I need to know what to do to stop this cycle and find happiness.
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Marriage issues
Depression Support / by straightforwardThinker4420
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 June 18th, 2024
...See more Time to spill this out of my chest. Never in my life have I been called a *** by someone who claims to love me. What kind of man says "I love you" and then the next minute calls you a *** and stupid? What’s even more shocking is that he had the audacity to say I don’t love the child I birthed. I’m still in shock, but I’m keeping my cool because the words we exchanged are not what loving married couples should say to each other. What concerns me most is that I can't address an issue without him getting defensive or angry. This leaves me questioning why he's getting angry instead of talking things out, especially since he's been caught exchanging sensitive information with his ex girlfriend. I'm staying quiet for now because I’m not one to make drastic decisions on the spot. I observe, evaluate, and then decide when the time is 
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