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Help pls! Really confused about my same gender romantic fantasies that I do not desire in real life- am I biromantic or bisexual because of fantasies?
Relationship Stress / by sunnyApple1829
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 February 28th, 2018
...See more Hey ya'll, Im so confused right now. I am a woman in her mid 20's and identify as hetro-romantic as I am not really that sexually interested in men but can form romantic attractions to men. A few times I have had active (meaning I was awake) romantic fantasies of being with celebrity women (actress and an athlete) and imagined being in a dating relationship (living together, kissing etc) and yet as soon as the fantasy was done I couldnt help but laugh at it because I have no attraction towards these women but I have been watching lesbian movies and maybe it got me curious at to what it would be like. I was turned on by the romantic fantasy but for whatever reason it doesnt crossover to any real life desire. So my question is do these romantic fantasies that I have no desire to make real mean that I am now bisexual or biromantic? Also is it normal to fantasize about people you are not attracted to in real life? I am not attracted to these celebrity women at all so what explains me fantazing about them and being turned on? If anyone can help answer these two questions you would really be helping me out as I feel very confused and alone :( and feel like I am suffering from an identity crisis :( I've read online that romantic fantasies can indicate one's sexual orientation, is this true? And what about if I don't actually want to act out those fantasies does it still change my sexual orientation?
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