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sunnyVase9732
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PathStep 164 Compassion hearts227 Forum posts22 Forum upvotes20 Current upvotes20 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2025 Member sinceAugust 8, 2017
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Time Will Tell
Journals & Diaries / by sunnyVase9732
Last post
 August 18th, 2025
...See more She left me to be alone. She left me to heal from something she let get out of control. She loved me. I loved her, and still do even in this. She wants to keep in touch, but what does that look like? We used to talk every day, but now there is silence. When will she reach out? Is it okay for me to reach out? What if we never talk again? I hope she heals. I hope that she remembers what we had, and that it was true. I hope that she can fine the courage to reach out when she is ready. I hope that we can come back to one another. I hope that I have also healed from this hurt by then. I don’t know her life anymore. But i know that we loved one another. I know that she loved me. What does the future hold for her? For me? For us? Time will tell.
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Missing her dearly - no contact
Relationship Stress / by sunnyVase9732
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 July 28th, 2025
...See more I woke up today next to no one. It’s been a month since that’s been happening. I miss my former girlfriend dearly, but I wish her the best in her endeavors to heal. She needed to go through this chapter of her life alone. I am heartbroken, but I understand. I don’t fully get it, but I understand. We both wish to keep in contact. I wish she would reach out. It’s not for me to do, rather it is for me to wait for her to accept the invitation that has been there since she left. I can do nothing besides focus on my own healing. But I miss her dearly… Does anyone have any tips for someone struggling through a no contact period? Even if indefinite, this is one of the more difficult seasons of my life.
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She was supposed to be here with me
Relationship Stress / by sunnyVase9732
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 July 3rd, 2025
...See more My former girlfriend was supposed to be here with me on this family vacation. I feel so incredibly lonely even amongst family - it makes no sense and is frankly ridiculous of me to be this way. She made the right decision for herself by ending the relationship. The fallout that I’m struggling with is just so much. I feel so stupid grieving this way around family.
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