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An unhealthy relationship?
Relationship Stress / by superfoodjunk
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 October 14th, 2018
...See more Hey all, I need some advice on what seems like an unhealthy relationship but only from my point of view (not my boyfriends). Im quite emotional compared to him so I think I definitely over analyse situations which is why we tend to get upset with each other and I have recognised this as an unhealthy habit and am trying to fix it. However, it feels like while im doing all these things to better us together and get closer that he is doing nothing. He tells me that he doesnt need to try because he knows we wont break up and accused me of trying to change him when I asked if he could be clearer with communication (I was not asking for the world or anything like that). I genuinely get physical heart ache from stress because of him sometimes honestly and I think I am putting through myself through a lot. I dont want to leave him; I couldnt imagine a life without him (cliche I know) but honestly I would not ready to throw two years away. I just want someone to tell me Im overreacting and to pull myself together. However, I am not happy. Ive given up on addressing my issues because he always gets so defensive and I end up apologising most of the time. It doesnt feel right. Someone please give me some advice :)
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