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tealSailboat6425
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I need help deciding if i should get divorced or not
Relationship Stress / by tealSailboat6425
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 September 10th, 2025
...See more I had a previous post that I think my husband hates me. These are my actual thoughts: Pros to divorcing: * I won’t have to think about every day if he likes me or not * I won’t have to hear him accusing me of cheating on him again (he accuses me of this but I have never done it) * I feel like I would feel “free” * I would be able to see my family and friends again. He doesn’t tell me I can’t, but *** about how awful people they are and how they are trash so I choose to avoid seeing them. Cons: * My kids will have a broken home and I think this would be especially hard on my 6 year old because he’s so sensitive as it is * I will have to fight for 50/50 bc my husband already said if I filed “you’ll never see these kids again” * I will have to fight for my home which feels like home. I have no desire to move * I will have to fight relocation because he would want to leave with the kids. basically, I don’t want to hurt my children the most and go through a long year+ long fight. I just don’t want to keep feeling this dread I have every day. Right now, he’s been mad at me for 4 days and either yelling at me or giving me the silent treatment. I’ve lost 3 lbs in 4 days. Help
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Relationship Stress / by tealSailboat6425
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 August 28th, 2025
...See more I think my husband hates me.
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