@tealSailboat6425
Why u think like that
You can empty your heart if you want .
We are always here to listen
@tealSailboat6425
Hi. Why do you think your husband hates you?
I hope you’re ok.
He hates living where we live. He hates my friends, he hates my family. He said if two years goes by and he still lives here, to kill him or he’ll do it himself because it is a “cesspool” where we live. Hes miserable and constantly negative. Today I paid over $5000 from my own savings to put a French drain in our house and instead of thanking me for handling it (I dealt with getting the quotes, handled the company and paid for it) he took me on a tour of the outside of our house and told me what a *** job it was. He just doesn’t even remotely like me.
@tealSailboat6425
Wow!
That's alot!
If he sadly is so mean, and hates where you live, your family, your friends, and has no appreciation of what you do for him, why are you still with him? Do your feelings and happiness not matter too? 💜💕
Because of my kids, sadly
@tealSailboat6425
Do you tell him that it hurts your feelings when he dismisses your efforts or states that he hates where you live, family and friends?
He dismisses it. He said it’s my fault he hates it here. He hangs onto things that made him mad 6 years ago. He accuses me of cheating on him when I never have.
@tealSailboat6425 My parents stayed together for me and my brother and it was the worst! Not only did we wish they would divorce, as a girl I learned to let myself be treated a certain way from seeing it all of my life and that being unhappy in a marriage is normal. My brother learned he could treat women in a certain way. I don't think that staying together or divorcing is easy for kids, but seeing at least one if not both parents happy could make a big difference for them. I wish my mom had shown me that she could stand up for herself, be independent and that she could make herself happy. I also think that no matter what a parent does, their kids are going to have some kind of issue as they grow, relationships with friends, education issues, ect... just being there and being part of the solution not THE solution and not a part of the problem with love is all we can do as parents I think... this is just my opinion.
I really appreciate that and I completely agree with all of it. My parents divorced when I was younger and I ended up fine. I guess I’m just hoping that’s not what it has to come to and that he actually does love me?