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theLakeReturns
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Nobody is interested in me and it sucks
Relationship Stress / by theLakeReturns
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 August 2nd, 2023
...See more Hi there all, I'm a 24 year-old guy and I'm currently living a good life where I also go to socialize atleast twice a week. I always expected better from myself but seems like girls just don't feel interested in me. It's when often I make them enjoy my company so much, I make them laugh and enjoy the whole interaction so much, and I also bond well with people around me. I make some really good friends too. I just don't understand it. My cousins and relatives always told me when I was around 14, that I won't find a partner because I'm not cool and trendy, and seems like that's what's happening. I also got rejected when I expressed my feelings to someone who was super-fond of me otherwise. Somehow, something seems to be so bad about me that nobody forms romantic feelings for me. Not even interest. I just don't understand how things are like this when I'm not physically unattractive, often a social butterfly, nice and kind to everyone and passionate about so many of my hobbies.
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Social Anxiety makes me less desireable?
Relationship Stress / by theLakeReturns
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 May 30th, 2022
...See more I have had social anxiety all my life, and during the last couple of years I have tried to work on it, and honestly made good improvement. But, I am still socially anxious, and can't hold conversations for long without being anxious, around people whom I find intimidating at least, and also around women. For a couple of days, I have been learning that being confident about life isn't what makes you attractive, but being confident socially, makes you attractive, and I lack that social confidence due to my social anxiety. I have always struggled with being liked by women, and now the thought that women dont find me attractive becuase of my social anxiety depresses me much more! It's really disappointing. What should I do?
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