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theofficalyuki
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Ex problems
Newbie Hub / by theofficalyuki
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August 20th, 2025
...See more So from I’m gonna update my last post… Even if I hated to do it, I gave my ex money for the pc that he wanted back cause we broke up now. Still don’t get his mindset but whatever. There is a new problem though… No name telling of course — One of his friends, and the only one I want to stay in contact with, told me a few things. There is a possibility that my ex put some kind of spyware?! I don’t know if it’s my phone or pc, IF it’s true of course. Though I am really scared and shocked. What do I do?!
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Manipulation?
Newbie Hub / by theofficalyuki
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August 21st, 2025
...See more Hi, I’m new here and I’m really struggling with my ex at the moment. We have been together for 4 years in a distant relationship. I won’t be talking about the reason(s) why I broke up with him. It would be a long explanation. However I needed to deal with many things that I carried on my shoulders. After I told him everything and about the why’s I don’t want to go back to him, everything went south. He demands his things back, such like clothes and so on. Even the things he openly gifted to me. I don’t get it. I’m not demanding the things back that I gifted him either. Is that just a way to get me to talk to him constantly, even if he said he won’t hope that we get back to each other again? Either way I’m anxious, I’m overthinking everything possible negative outcome. For example: what would happen if I block him? I’m afraid for some reason. And if this is really some trick of manipulation then I regret falling for it twice in my life. The first time was an old “friend”.
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