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tidySpring1309
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts56 Forum posts6 Forum upvotes8 Current upvotes8 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2026 Member sinceJune 24, 2025
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did horrible as someone with imposter syndrome
General Support / by tidySpring1309
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May 12th
...See more hi i have imposter syndrome which simply means i feel uncomfortable being perceived by people, even in a good way.. actually specially in a good way its so overwhelming to be told i did a good job when i studied or achived something i always downplay my achievements or even hide them till people find out and are confused why i hid that i am very into fashion though, so was looking for a prom dress(obviously for prom) and the dress i bought was a little... too much i didn't think/consider how my classmates would dress but i realized most of them will be wearing simple dresses like black or green any plain colored dress and the most dramatic one would probably just get it sparkly i bought a dress thats a gown that looks more like engagement party or even wedding dress my mom really liked it and said i should wear it when i get engaged, thats how "too much" it is, but i saw alot of plain prom dresses i even have one, but these dresses dont do it for me, they just feel boring for my liking (they look good on my classmates /friends though) terrified of the attention i might get whether positive or negative honestly, what do u think i should do go with my other more plain dress or just wear this one?
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am i autistic?
Autism Support / by tidySpring1309
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November 7th, 2025
...See more how to know if im autistic? as a woman i know its hard to notice autism in women but almost all my traits (except for sensory issues) align so much with autism, infact i was diagnosed with social anexity and have tried to fix it but it never worked,also ive been struggling with social problems even before i started struggling with social anexity and was very social and have been trying to self diagnose but no label fit me as perfectly as high masking autism specially about being "naive", i always would self analyze trying to understand what causes that? and always tried to hide this naive part of me so i dont get taken advantage off or hide it or get ride of it by practicing more social interactions,but it never went awayy and usually there was no answer even the bullying ive gone through that i still go through even if less, for "no reason" the only thing that explains it is autism i do not have the money to go to a professional who can help me get the right diagnosis, so how do i really know if i am specially because my mom always invalidates me when i say i got bullied and struggled alot, saying its normal and happened to everyone and i have to stop "acting like i am mentally ill" when im fine
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