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toughTriangle3893
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my guy bestfriend…
Friendship Support / by toughTriangle3893
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 November 12th, 2025
...See more So there’s this guy I’ve been really close to for a while now. We’ve shared so many moments that felt like something more the kind that make your heart skip. Like during a night out, he’d fix my hair, hold my hand, dance closely with me, protect me from crowds, or wraps me from his arm in a couch, while looking at other girls. We’d talk about personal stuff, laugh until our sides hurt, and sometimes it just feels like we get each other in a way no one else does. But then there are times when he acts like nothing ever happened just the same teasing, playful guy around our friends, making jokes, treating me like “one of the boys.” It’s confusing because when we’re alone or when he’s had a few drinks, he becomes softer, more open, even a bit clingy. But sober? It’s like he puts a wall back up. We’re in the same friend group, and he’s also friends with my ex, so that just makes things more complicated. I don’t want drama, I don’t want to misread things, and honestly, I’m happy with my life right now. But part of me keeps replaying those moments, wondering if he meant any of it or if he’s just naturally affectionate and I’m overthinking I don’t know what to do. I like him, but I feel like he’s just really friendly.
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Am i overreacting?
Friendship Support / by toughTriangle3893
Last post
 December 17th, 2025
...See more Hello i have a bestfriend for 5 years, we have been really good but i feel like we are disconnecting slowly. We are both busy both in school and working but her work is more exhausting. I am single she is in a relationship for almost 2 yrs, i am also friends with her bf and we are in a group with others. the thing is, sometimes i feel lonely, the only time we hanged out was this year around January and thats it. Sometimes maybe i overthink? she is in touch with her other friends. Sometimes when i feel sad i text her but she doesnt respond like after 10hrs. idk what to do from there.. she is my person but i feel like im not her person.
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