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Need to be heard and some advice — confused and tired heart
Relationship Stress / by tvgirllover
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 July 19th, 2025
...See more Hello everyone, I’m here because I need to talk, to share what I’m feeling, and above all to get some advice or just a kind, listening ear. I’m going through a really tough emotional time and feel completely lost. For two years now, I’ve been stuck in a very complicated emotional situation. At first, I wasn’t looking for anything, but then a close friend, Marin, got closer to me. We started flirting, sharing intimate moments (without really being a couple), and built a very intense connection. But the day before our first official date, he kissed another girl, then started dating her without telling me. I found out from someone else. A year later, that girl left him. He came back to me, fragile, and I welcomed him because I still loved him. I was there for him, listening and supporting him. Soon, the ambiguity came back: nights spent together, hugs, kisses, emotional and physical intimacy… but still no clear commitment. Then one day, I found out again from someone else that he was in a relationship with another girl. He hadn’t told me. Worse, despite his new relationship, he kept sending mixed signals to me. When I spoke to his girlfriend, she was kind and understanding… but he denied everything like nothing happened. I had to cut ties, losing both my best friend, my anchor, and the man I loved. Since then, I’ve been with someone else — a girl I had loved before. But this relationship isn’t very healthy: she showers me with messages and attention, but I don’t really feel understood. There’s an emotional gap, a kind of emptiness. I need a deeper connection, gestures, presence… like I had with him. And he keeps coming back. We see each other, sometimes sleep together, he flirts with me even though he’s in a relationship. I’m unable to move on. I feel emotionally unfaithful to my girlfriend. I feel guilty and lost. I’m stuck in a dilemma. I feel emotionally dependent on him, and it’s exhausting. I need clarity, peace, and to find a love that truly nourishes me. But for now, I’m lost between two stories, two hearts… and just one me who doesn’t know where she stands anymore. Sorry if my English isn’t perfect — I’m French and still learning. Thank you for understanding.
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