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versatilePal757
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts22 Forum posts5 Forum upvotes3 Current upvotes3 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2021 Member sinceJuly 8, 2018
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Very confused
Relationship Stress / by versatilePal757
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October 25th, 2021
...See more My ex called last night at 9:30 pm to talk about my daughter. We ended up talking about our daughter, him, our relationship, and his current divorce. Before I knew it we had talked 2 hours and 45 minutes. It was like putting on a familiar pair of jeans. It felt great. I know he isn’t good for me. I know he is very self-centered i know I didn’t really sleep afterwards I know I really enjoyed myself. i feel like I opened a door for him. I know that is not a good thing and my family and friends would be so mad, disappointed that we are talking. I am so torn. I have not dated since him and I know my heart still loves him. what do I do?
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Too long
Relationship Stress / by versatilePal757
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October 24th, 2021
...See more I was married 20 years and have been divorced 7. I am still in love with him. He is not good for me. He is manipulative and very self centered. But, I have not moved on. I had not talked to him in 7 years until our child got sick this summer. I went to take care of her and he went on vacation. Then proceeded to blame me for not keeping him informed about her progress. Some things don’t change. But, I still don’t want to date - but I miss being with someone. feel like I am losing it.
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Hello from Sunny Florida
50 & Over Community / by versatilePal757
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October 26th, 2021
...See more Hi 55 from sunny Florida here. I too tend to get depressed even with all the sun. Been divorced for 7 years and have yet to start dating. Ex remarried two year after we separated as I predicted and is in the process of getting divorced- as predicted I started getting everything together the first week in June and the second week one of my children was hospitalized. I spent all summer working with getting things better there and have put my own self in a tail spin. Spec at seem to get to feeling good about life. well anyhow … that’s how life is for the time being.
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