Very confused
My ex called last night at 9:30 pm to talk about my daughter. We ended up talking about our daughter, him, our relationship, and his current divorce. Before I knew it we had talked 2 hours and 45 minutes. It was like putting on a familiar pair of jeans. It felt great.
I know he isn’t good for me.
I know he is very self-centered
i know I didn’t really sleep afterwards
I know I really enjoyed myself.
i feel like I opened a door for him. I know that is not a good thing and my family and friends would be so mad, disappointed that we are talking.
I am so torn. I have not dated since him and I know my heart still loves him.
what do I do?
I know this is hard to do when you love him but if you know he’s not good for you, I would cut off all contact now. life is really too short to spend it on people who don’t truly cherish and appreciate us. Set a good example for your daughter that the only relationships worth having are healthy ones. Best of luck to you!
Sëx with the ex. Can be fun. Can be heart breaking. Sounds like you need breaking..
@versatilePal757,
you have not had any attention from a male for a while.
No wonder that you felt the way you felt.
Don't however confuse it with having feelings. You split for a reason and you are quite able to come up with reasons why you split.
As the two of you have a daughter, breaking off all contact as someone suggested is a great way if you want to harm your daughter.
And no, this is not about "sex with the ex" as another someone found necessary to respond.
