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virtualSolace44
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🌸 Please respect my privacy at this time 🌸
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by virtualSolace44
Last post
 September 7th, 2025
...See more I just discovered there is a feature to browse listeners by what state they’re located in.   I’m wondering what reason there would be to seek out a listener in a specific state. Continent, country…sure, but what is 7 Cups doing to protect the privacy of listeners at this point, especially when listeners are held to a very high standard to protect the privacy and confidentiality of members. Why is United States the only country which asks for a more specific location?  I guess I’m glad I discovered this, but it’s pretty alarming. A layer of my privacy is now compromised. I have never once mentioned what state I live in on my member or listener account, yet here is my listener account on a list specified by state. These are the questions I have: * How long has this been on the website?  * Where in the guidelines is it stated listeners can be browsed by state?  * How did 7 Cups notify listeners that they are now available to be browsed by state?   * Who exactly should a member/listener contact to have their data permanently removed from the 7 Cups website?  * The guidelines put the onus on protecting privacy and security solely on its members and listeners. What is 7 Cups doing to keep this community safe?  @Heather225 @Tommy @Rebekah @SilentObserver @glenM
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Posh Talks
Pen Pals / by virtualSolace44
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 February 28th, 2025
...See more @pinkWalker7121 Here is our very own “posh pit.” We can chat the latest on selenium, Alex Jones, self care, art, all things pink and lucid. 
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Most inspiring woman you’ve ever known?
Women's Issues / by virtualSolace44
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 February 20th, 2025
...See more Who is/was the most inspiring woman you’ve ever known? How did you meet? What qualities does/did she embody? What was your relationship like? What is the best advice she’s given you? What was special about this woman? * Please don’t feel obligated to answer all of the questions- Maybe just the ones that stick out to you the most.
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Poetry
Reading & Writing / by virtualSolace44
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 May 25th, 2025
...See more What is your favorite book of poetry and why?
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“You’re so strong.”
20 & Over / by virtualSolace44
Last post
 December 5th, 2024
...See more I’m tired of being told how strong, resilient, and un breakable I am. I’m exhausted. I don’t want to be strong. I want to melt into the arms of someone deeply concerned for my well being. I want to be checked on. I want someone to call me and say “hey, are you okay, why have you been radio silent?” I’ve been conditioned from a young age to never ask for help, so much that the very thought of doing so paralyses me with fear.
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