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User Profile: virtualSolace44
virtualSolace44 July 23rd, 2025
I just discovered there is a feature to browse listeners by what state they’re located in.  

I’m wondering what reason there would be to seek out a listener in a specific state. Continent, country…sure, but what is 7 Cups doing to protect the privacy of listeners at this point, especially when listeners are held to a very high standard to protect the privacy and confidentiality of members. Why is United States the only country which asks for a more specific location? 

I guess I’m glad I discovered this, but it’s pretty alarming. A layer of my privacy is now compromised. I have never once mentioned what state I live in on my member or listener account, yet here is my listener account on a list specified by state.

These are the questions I have:
* How long has this been on the website? 

* Where in the guidelines is it stated listeners can be browsed by state? 

* How did 7 Cups notify listeners that they are now available to be browsed by state?  

* Who exactly should a member/listener contact to have their data permanently removed from the 7 Cups website? 

* The guidelines put the onus on protecting privacy and security solely on its members and listeners. What is 7 Cups doing to keep this community safe? 

@Heather225 @Tommy @Rebekah @SilentObserver @glenM


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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 July 23rd, 2025

@virtualSolace44

I wasn't aware of this. If this is true, it's a serious privacy concern.

User Profile: virtualSolace44
virtualSolace44 OP July 23rd, 2025

@trueconfidant I came across it while doing a training to be a room supporter. You can search therapist’s profiles (who are not affiliated with cups) by city and state- which by the way most of those therapists have no idea they have provider profiles on cups. Then you can search listeners by state. In my state there are two therapists with pending complaints filed against them…advertised by 7 cups lol. Maybe I should apply for the 7 cups quality and risk team 😂

User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 July 23rd, 2025

@virtualSolace44

Wow that's wild. I have never come across it lol. Thanks for bringing it up. I'm sure the team will look into it.

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 July 23rd, 2025

@virtualSolace44

Hi, thanks for asking about this. The directory is part of our local support system, designed to bridge the gap between online and offline support. When someone searches for help in their area, this directory helps them see that compassionate support does exist close to home - even if it's online for now.

Your presence on 7 Cups, even virtually, makes local mental health more accessible. Many people who reach out to us are looking for someone who understands their cultural context, time zone, or region. This small piece of state-level info helps them feel more connected and safe when taking that first step toward support.

That said, your privacy and comfort matter. When a listener signs up, they voluntarily share their state to help match with those who may need localized support. If you’d prefer not to appear in the directory with that info, you can always opt out by heading to your settings and removing your state information.

The role of a listener, whether supporting someone across the world or across the street, continues to be a vital part of the healing journey for so many. Thank you again for asking and for being a part of our community.

User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 August 13th, 2025

@Heather225

Hi. I like the idea of sharing local resources. I think there is a good idea here.

But I also have concerns about my location as a listener being shared.

I live in a very small country. Significantly smaller than a US state. I would never choose to share the name of my country on here due to the risks of being identified. I had a look in the settings and I couldn't find a way to decline to share country location. Can you give more specific directions? The best I could do was select the wrong country.

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User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 August 13th, 2025

@virtualSolace44

I also noticed this recently, and raised a question about it. And I also have concerns. I will respond to Heather below, but i just wanted to say thanks for raising it.

User Profile: ingeniousEnergy223
ingeniousEnergy223 September 6th, 2025

@Clio9876 do you know if or how is it possible to disable our state to be visible publicly?

User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 September 7th, 2025

@ingeniousEnergy223

The only thing I found I could do was to lie about my location. So, I selected a location that isn't my true location.

User Profile: ingeniousEnergy223
ingeniousEnergy223 September 7th, 2025

I see, thank you for letting me know :)

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