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Scared
Eating Disorder Support / by woolfiee
Last post
 April 22nd, 2017
...See more Hey, so for as long as I can remember I have loved food and always been the pudgy kid with the slim friends. I've gone on countless diets, all amounting to nothing. I generally eat very well but have always been heavy or gained weight. Recently I started an even healthier diet, which seems to have gone wrong and crashed. I'm not at the point where I don't eat lunch, breakfast is either nothing or a small smoothie, and dinner is as small as I can make it. My friend gave me half an oat bar yesterday because she said I needed to eat so I could get over my cold, but even this small bar made me feel so bad. My body is starting to look awful, I've always been pear shaped but now I can see my ribs but my lower stomach has gotten huge and it's always been flat, and I'm sure my thighs are bigger. I know I should eat but I don't want to gain weight. And I know for the type of body I want I need to gain weight to get muscle, and then cut to get rid of fat. I'm just so scared. The thought of eating isn't pleasant and when I do eat I just want to cry. I know this is dumb but I just want something to be pretty about me, and I can't do that if I'm too heavy.
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Bleeding and Tightness
Relationship Stress / by woolfiee
Last post
 September 2nd, 2016
...See more So my boyfriend first fingered me rather roughly about a month ago and while it felt good for the most part, when adding a second finger it felt rather uncomfortable. After, I went to the toilet and noticed I had bled a bit. I couldn t locate exactly where the blood had come from but it eventually stopped by the morning. After this I was swollen, itchy and had gotten a yeast infection which I used some cream to treat. Eventually the itching and swelling went away and about two weeks later my boyfriend fingered me again. This time when he added a second finger, it was more comfortable but still bled, though less this time. I stopped him because I didn t want to make it any worse. I have no idea why this is happening. Today I checked myself down there and realised I was quite tight. I just feel like something is wrong with me. I googled and it said it could be a yeast infection but I had that ages ago and treated it so I m fairly sure it can t be. I m so worried that I won t be able to have sex because of the pain and bleeding and I don t know what to do. I don t want to tell my mum about my worries because I feel that she wouldn t want me having sex and I m just so confused. It's making me so worried that I'm weird.
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My Boyfriend And His Mum Clash
Relationship Stress / by woolfiee
Last post
 August 25th, 2016
...See more Ok, so recently my boyfriend has seemed pretty down because of his relationship with his mum. They seem to argue and his mum can escalate small things pretty quickly. She calls him a brat and sometimes tells him that she really doesn't like him. This not only makes him feel down but when it comes to confrontation he rises to it which just makes it worse. I want to help him be able to talk to her calmly but she may react badly and I was wondering if you have any tips for situations like this, to help keep him calm. I just want to help him.
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