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...See more So i've been seeing this guy for the last 5 months and it had been going great up until last weekend where he went silent on me I messaged him Tuesday and got nothing and messaged again the Wednesday to make sure everything was ok. I eventually got a reply back Thursday saying he was sorry and that he'd been having a nightmare at home and he would call me that night to explain. I never got that phone call but he messaged me on the Friday and said it was too much to explain in text but he really needed to see me, which I was happy to do but as it was late i couldn't get a train in time again the same thing happened Saturday but he had been visiting family so we arranged for yesterday to meet which I got ready and organised and heard nothing back from him. I messaged him again today and told him that i would be there for him when he was ready to talk but i'm not just going to be an option its not fair to me. I feel like i'm bombarding him and i don't want to do. The only thing that has changed is that two weeks ago he told ne he loved me which at the time took me aback a little because i wasn't expecting if he just said it in the heat of the moment which i asked him and he said he meant it. I didn't say it back at the time but I did in a message which i wanted to wait to see him to say but i didn't know when we would be able to see each other next. Am i over thinking this or being irrational? Do I wait and see if he replies or do i just say this is obviously not working out?

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