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xoaliy
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my boyfriend and i have been fighting and he says that i’ve been the cause
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 August 11th, 2025
...See more i don’t really know what to think. at first i thought its both our faults but im starting to believe its just me. he says i start all this fights and it’s not like im trying too and i dont think its every fight like he says but all it takes is me getting upset and after that we are fighting. i have bipolar depression and im pretty sure i have bpd i tell him i cant control getting upset and that i need help but he refuses. he lays there or i have to come hug him and say sorry before getting anything and i love him but this hurts he recently starting saying he doesn’t care abt the fights and says “why care about something you don’t like” he comes after the fight to say sorry but how am i supposed to feel better when he only comes after and tells me he doesn’t care and just sits as i cry. i just want help when i get upset what girl doesn’t want there boyfriend to hold them and atleast try i wanna feel like he cares again
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