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yeohwa
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Relationship Stress / by yeohwa
Last post
 May 18th, 2022
...See more Hi everyone, I recently started talking to this guy, specifically a week ago, who messaged me on my social media. He's very sweet and kind but I noticed he has developed strong feelings for me. He talked to me about his past relationships and how traumatic they were for him. I genuinely care for him and have not noticed any other major red flags. However, I feel like this is moving too fast for me and feel like he's love bombing me. He even told me he loved me yesterday. We live in different cities and yesterday he told me eventually I would have to move to his city to be together. I was upset after this because I can't just drop everything in my life and move, especially after only knowing him for a week. I also don't understand how he can love me after not really knowing much about me. I have developed feelings for him but I still think it's important to think logically about it all. He has told me he make's his decisions by following his heart, which makes me wonder if he's rushing everything because of his negative past relationships. I'm confused because I don't know if due to my past commitment issues (that i worked through) this is why I'm struggling or if it is a genuine cause of concern for others as well. I would appreciate any comments or advice 🤍
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[tw] sexual assault
Trauma Support / by yeohwa
Last post
 June 20th, 2021
...See more this is my first time posting on one of these so i'm a little nervous but i need let out what i have been feeling for so long. i was sexually assaulted when i was 13 years old by someone who constantly manipulated me and took advantage of me emotionally/physically. at the time i didn't know what he did was wrong and i constantly made excuses to justify it. since then i have only told one person in my life about what happened and i still struggle to form relationships with people despite it happening years ago. i get angry because i see this person on social media being happy with a wife and newborn daughter yet here i am struggling to even connect with people and let them in because of what he did to me. i have a hard time trusting people won't hurt me and use me like he did. i feel so much relief letting this out since it has constantly been a heavy weight i was carrying by myself.
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