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zaatarHoney |
Listener - Sage 13

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating
June 5th Update:  I am only scheduling 1-1 support sessions on the weekends. If you reach out while I’m offline, allow for 3-7 days for response. I am working two essential jobs offline and both have been deeply impacted by the ongoing pandemic since March. Thank you for your patience and I look forward to connecting with you. ♡ If you are in need of immediate emotional support, please look for an online listener @ and we can meet on a later date. This is also a great step toward building an emotional support network which is vital to healing.

✧ Verified Listener (18+ / ATL) ✧ Co-Community Mentor Leader (AS) ✧

✧ Peer Support ✧ Quality Mentor ✧ Listener Coach ✧ Safety Patrol ✧

✧ Mod for Anxiety, Trauma, Depression and Bipolar/Psychosis Support ✧ 

Mondays, 8-9pm EST  
I will be Co-Hosting in the (18+) Sharing Circle room!

(ꈍᴗꈍ) Hey Yall, I’m Zaati! (She/Her Pronouns, CIS female, LGBTQ+ friendly) I love cherry sours and eating lemons. I’m in my late 20s and have overcome a lot of adversity and complex trauma throughout my own life. I would love to get to know you and hear your story.

You are capable of being great and living up to your potential— even if you never believed that before, even if it’s hard to believe that in this moment. We can dig deep, we can process things— in hopes that, you heal and regain hope.

♡ If we speak and you appreciate our conversation, please let me know in a review! ♡ I really appreciate receiving them and I reflect on your words from time-to-time. But most importantly, if I’ve been of help to you, your words also stand as a powerful testimony to others who are also seeking help in the future. I’m also open to constructive criticism! If you think there’s any way I can improve to better support you, please communicate this with me. Because this is the path I am actively pursuing in life, I’d really love to know how I can be more helpful to you, and others. You can read more about why leaving a quality review is important and what that means > here <

I'm mostly involved in the Anxiety Support Community.
Feel welcome to PM me if you have any questions, or would like to join!
Click here to find the Anxiety Support Forum
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Other Forums I’m involved with:

Trauma Support ✧ Depression Support ✧
✧ Bipolar/Schizophrenia & Psychosis Support ✧
✧ Young People of Color Support 

Topic(s) I do not discuss:
Currently Ongoing Physical/Sexual Child Abuse — I urge you to please seek out help for yourself or the one(s) suffering. If you think you, or someone you love, are experiencing some form of abuse, reach out to someone who can support you offline, or find another listener @  or you are encouraged to visit our Trauma SubCommunity Forum for more support.

Thank you for understanding.

** Please do not reach out to me to troll or be insincere about your story. Be real with me— I’m here to be real with you.

Number of Ratings: 142
Number of Reviews: 93
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Feb 4, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 619
Cheers 179,692
People Helped 364
Chats 2,403
Group Support Chats 302
Listener Group Chats 168
Forum Posts 823
Forum Upvotes 1,464
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Feedback & Reviews
Responsive, encouraging, helpful
Great listener. Very warm and supportive. Sent me helpful forum links as well!
Super helpful nice and caring. You won’t be let down. I am very grateful for the chat
Well I'm not sure what more I can say about her, she's the best human being I've ever had the pleasure of meeting, she's been so helpful and kind and comforting to me for so long, I'll forever be grateful for her and her help
Absolutely amazing. Most lovely. Powerful listener ever absolute sweetheart I love this person. Super creative like ahh
They have been great so far. Look forward to keep chatting with them.
Great listener and empathetic!
nobody kinder, nobody more real
Shes the best listener you'll ever find here on cups, empathetic, kind everything shes really amazing and is always there for you and makes you feel better.
Attentive and supportive. She remembers what you say and helps you see your situation more clearly than you even realized before. Friendly but you can tell she’s a real person. Thanks Zaat, for all the time you’ve spent with me.
Amazing person, very easy to talk to, very supportive and listens to every word
Jaali is so wonderful. Always willing to listen, Jaali is very thoughtful, supportive, understanding. I just love jaali. keep up the great work! you're helping a lot of people by listening. :) Thank you for helping ME, and continuto listen!
She was very helpful, and it was easy to talk with her. Normally, I do not like to open up, but she felt like a friend. Her personality is so warm and she is genuinely interested in the conversation.
She made sure I felt safe and comfortable our whole chat. I felt respected and heard and I dont normally like speaking to anyone. She changed the way I felt about myself and the future. She gave me hope. I would highly recommend chatting with zaat. :)
♡ ty ty ty ty soooo much!
Honey is sweet as can be🍯🐝🥰 she always helps me process what I’m feeling, so I can better assess how to move forward. She is so calm and comforting, and patient. Exactly what I needed.. honey for the soul! Thank you for the smiles! xoxo
Kind and responsive. Zaat helps you come to your own conclusions and by the end of the chat, gifts you with clarity and peace. Thank you my friend. ☀️
Among the best listeners I’ve experienced. Kind, direct, compassionate, empathic and smart. A gem of a being.
We are still mid chat but she is the first person I don’t immediately want to run from and has given me great advice and a caring ear.
Zaatar gave me hope tonight. I thought I wanted to give up on my dreams bcos everything felt so hopeless. She shined a light into my heart and helped me see how much potential the future still holds for me. Her compassion has more depth than all the known galaxies. She is a bright shining star in a dim world. Thank you for meeting my pain eye-to-eye, and then for your insights and empowerment.
Zaa must be magical. She is soothing and inspiring. There is no other listener like her.. an old soul with a sparkling heart. I’m so grateful, ty
very good listener i learned a lot
Best listener I've ever come across. Like talking to a close and old friend, and a super big sweetheart and great sense of humor. Made my night and helped cheer me up big time.
Great help. And great advice
Very helpful and kind. Habe similar experiences and regenerated my self confidence
She was so kind and understanding. She did not judge me at all. She used analogies that helped me see things in new perspectives. I did not knew how light it would feel if I talked about my burden until I talked with her and I felt heard. She is the sweetest soul just like her name, Honey. :) She really cares for anyone she listenes too and she got to understanding how I felt before I even knew it. She made me laugh which brightened up my day
zaatarHoney, you are an amazing listener and i appreciate you and your response. you replied with such professionalism and knowledge. keep being awesome and helping others. you are truly blessed and appreciated.
She is the sweetest, most open-minded girl I have ever known. She loves everyone and is willing to listen and give sincere, kind advice. I can promise you that you will not be disappointed if you talk to her. I feel like there's hope again, thanks to our conversation. "As apples of gold in silver carvings is a word spoken at the right time for it." Proverbs 25:11
good listener, they were kind and empathetic, i had to leave
Such positivity ! great chat. thank you.
Super helpful! Thoughtful listener and really pays attention to what is being talked about.
listens well and is a good advice giver
She knows what she is dealing with. She is patient and supportive. She is not afraid to disagree and is a master at it, not letting the positive mutual respect and understading mood of the conversation to drop. I enjoyed she stayed away from showing up so sure of everything and having an eye on the limits a 1-1 online chat has.
They understood my situation. Im so glad they picked me to talk to.
Just awesome!!!!!
I have met a lot of people on 7cups. But Jaali is one truly inspiring person. It's not about what she talks, it's about how she talks. She was someone who helped to find something in me tonight. Love and Peace.
Great listener, understanding and super kind
Honestly, one of the best, if not the best chat I have ever had here. She was understanding and really supportive, I can't thank her enough!!!!
This lady was an incredibly kind person. She went far above and beyond simple kindness. I am so grateful for her sweet words that gave me hope.
She spent so long listening to me, patient the entire way, considerate, insightful. I felt a load off my shoulders when we were done talking
Shes kind and warm
SUPER SUUUUUUUUPER AMAZING! Like no other in ways that can't be explained because she is so Spectacular!!!!!
Zaatar is a very kind and compassionate person. I was feeling lost and depressed for various reasons that i could not control. Zaatar offered encouragement, understanding and empathy which brought me out of despair and allowed me to push myself enough to do the things i needed to do. Many thanks zaatar for helping me. You are truely a beautiful person.
The other reviews aren't kidding. I was actually in awe about how responsive, kind, understanding and lovely this listener was. I didn't expect it. She is professional yet has a personality, kind but still honest. I really hope people have a chance to connect with her and really see what I'm talking about. This isn't a hyperbole when I say she's the best listener I've had, and I've had a lot.
She is by far the most compassionate human i have come across. She calmed me down when i couldn't think straight. And honestly she is one of the best listeners i have ever had the privilege of speaking to.
Awesome listener, so kind and helpful. They listened really well and were so judgement free and kind. I wish all listeners were as great as you!
Amazing!!!! She was so helpful and will definitely talk to her again
Really great discussion :) Helped me a lot
Responsive, understanding, great listener. Thank you so much!
Got great support!
They are very sweet, welcoming, and an amazing person to talk to
amazingly kind and supportive listener. generous with her time and takes the time to understand the topic.
good experience of 30 years of depression
It's great talking with someone who can relate to what's happening.
Lovely just said what i needed to hear and very polite
Great advice, kind and caring. Sounds like they care☺️ Loved the chat! Thank you so much
very understanding and a great listener
Like talking to an old friend
Very sweet, kind and patient.
An absolutely amazing human! Talked to me for almost two hours straight with zero judgment. I don't even know how to thank her, she helped me through a very rough time!
I loved to talk to this person. She was a great listener. And she tried to help me when I was asking questions. Thank you.
Really nice, good listener
Very helpful I am glad I came here
Such an amazing human being! I can’t even put into words how amazing this chat went! 10/0
Cool nice person to talk to
absolutely fantastic, she listened and helped me and i feel so much calmer now. i know what to do now. shes amazing
Really a truly wonderful listener. Took time and actually understood the problems faced. Very empathetic and all around great!
Thank you so much
Just an absolutely amazing human being
Very relaxed conversation, made me feel really comfortable and was very knowledgable with what I’m going through - thank you
very insightful very insightful very insightful
Very helpful and very bright and sunny. She always seems to know exactly what to say to make you feel better.
It was great to talk to you
Very encouraging and empathetic! Thank you! :) :) :)
Really nice listener, sensitive and asked some great questions to let me talk about how I was feeling :) thanks
A very gentle and kind listener. Felt such positivity from the connection. As a result of our conversation I was able reexamine my issues and seek alternative solutions instead of the black/white corner I had painted myself into.
She is a sweetheart. thank you for taking your time and talking to me. The world needs more people like you. You're my hero.
This was by far the best conversation I've had on here. It was comforting, really relatable and I cracked up several times. Awesome.
Without question the most helpful, sincere, and empathetic listener and I have had the honor of working with.
Attentive and graceful. She helps me come to my own conclusions every time we speak. She helps me identify the root of each problem Ive been facing. She is a blessing
She is a very understanding, caring, and insightful person. I've learned quite a lot from just talking to her.
Wonderful! Helped me see the whole picture.
Most kind and helpful person I've ever met on the interwebs. She helps you find peace and clarity. Its amazing. I feel like I see things in a much different light as compared to before. I am eternally grateful for her kind help.
Brighteyes is just as her name is...Bright. She helps you get a kind of clarity on your situation and is amazingly kind. I felt much much better after speaking with her. I am sure you will too... What a kind soul.
brightEyes999 is fantastic. I felt extremely comfortable explaining the situation and received amazing advice. I'm so thankful I got to speak with this listener!
She helped me more than anyone else could. She was concerned on an emotional level for all parties involved. She was my saving grace, and truly helped change my life around. She's an angel, and was so loving and supportive and attentive to emotional needs throughout. God bless her.
shes wesome
I am not sure if there is a way to adequately express my gratitude.
Thank you
She's putting her everything into listening to you. One simply knows.
best listener around here !!
Was sooo nice when i met her and helped me identify and accept a problem i was having. Super great, loving and caring and cannot recommend enough. Thank you so much ♥
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Questions Answered
Why do i wake up with no energy?
May 6th, 2019 2:43pm
Why am I here, do I make a difference here or I'm I useless
June 17th, 2015 8:51am
How can I open up to people more even if it scares me?
May 11th, 2019 5:14pm
My anxiety is getting worse and depression won't let me live my life, how do I overcome this?
October 31st, 2019 6:35pm
If I can laugh does that mean I don't have depression?
November 4th, 2019 9:26pm
How can I make illogical feelings go away?
June 17th, 2015 8:37am
How should I deal with overly competitive co-workers?
June 18th, 2015 2:46am
Why is it that the times I feel most stressed are the times when I have least motivation?
June 17th, 2015 1:30pm
What's the best way to stop emotional eating?
February 24th, 2020 8:12am
Does it help to identify panic triggers?
June 17th, 2015 10:24am
Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?
June 26th, 2015 4:12am
Is it normal to feel more anxious when you're alone?
March 11th, 2020 8:48pm
What should I do if I end up crying, and I find myself struggling to breathe?
December 4th, 2019 12:55am
Is it normal for me to struggle with feeling as if I was never not good enough?
June 18th, 2015 2:42am
Why do I always think I'm dying?
January 5th, 2019 11:20pm
How can you tell if you are a boy or a girl, or something else entirely?
June 21st, 2015 9:40am
Does the sexual orientation of a sexually fluid person usually change more than once? If so how long does that orientation last before it changes again?
May 6th, 2019 9:00pm
How can I tell my parents that I'm gay?
June 21st, 2015 4:24am
My son wants to smoke some weed, is it ok if i give him his first toke?
June 17th, 2015 1:29pm
What can I do when I feel an urge?
May 6th, 2019 2:38pm
After recovery from self-harm, how can I deal with the scars left on my body?
September 2nd, 2019 6:13pm
What do I say to people that ask about my scars without making them uncomfortable?
January 5th, 2019 11:26pm
I harm myself on purpose. I never do it because I need to cope, I do it because I like the pain and like to have something on my body. I know I should stop, but I don't want to. Why is that?
September 12th, 2019 3:42pm
why does cutting make me feel better but then bad afterwards?
January 5th, 2019 11:17pm
Why do I wake up so early and can't get back to sleep
June 17th, 2015 8:22am
Why do I keep having dreams of my bad childhood for no reason?
May 6th, 2019 8:52pm
How to get over someone I am madly in love with? Without losing my self?
May 6th, 2019 8:43pm
I can't get over my ex after 5 years. What should I do?
September 1st, 2019 12:55pm
is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?
September 13th, 2019 5:47pm
How to stop from having everything throughout my day remind me of my ex?
November 4th, 2019 9:33pm
What do I do if I'm too embarrassed to ask for help?
May 6th, 2019 3:19pm
How do I know if I'm the one causing problems?
May 6th, 2019 8:47pm
My father is having an extramarital affair. Part of me wants to end my relationship with him for cheating on my mom, but i worry that he will be depressed as he loves me a lot. How do I deal with this situation?
May 11th, 2019 5:20pm
How do I get rid of my 20 year old daughter who is a single mom with a 2 and half year old. She is draining me and my health stress money?
May 6th, 2019 8:56pm
Is there anyway to remove all of your sexual desire?
September 12th, 2019 3:47pm
I’m not living my dreams and I don’t even know if it’s possible I feel like I don’t have enough time like I’m to late, to far gone. I don’t know where to go from here?
September 24th, 2019 2:59pm
How do I let go and move on?
June 18th, 2015 2:44am
How to accept that I am deaf/ have a hearing loss?
December 4th, 2019 1:00am
I hallucinate a lot. How do I know if I have schizophrenia?
September 2nd, 2019 6:17pm