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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ThoughtfulBlossom
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<< Please browse for another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] if you are looking for immediate support. >>  ––– ✧.* Hello! My name is Blossom, and I'm glad that you came across my bio. ✧.* ༶•┈┈┈┈┈୨♡୧┈┈┈┈┈•༶ *ੈ✩‧₊˚ About Me as a Listener  *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Everyone needs a space where they can feel safe and understood, and that is very valid. We all have our challenges and struggles that we need to work through, and we don't want to be invalidated or disrespected for our acts of the present and past. I know how difficult it is to trust others, as well as reach out for support, and coming on here already shows how much courage you have in your heart. I am someone who you can reach out to if you need a safe and empathetic space to share any challenges you are facing. I am not allowed to give advice under any circumstances, but I will provide the encouragement and compassion that I know a lot of us need in this world. I would love to chat with you, not just as a listener, but as a friend. You are not alone in this world, and I hope to show that you can share whatever you are going through or get your heavy feelings off your chest. You are special and wonderful, and I will be here to listen and stand by you all the way. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Status Key *ੈ✩‧₊˚ ❋ Available ➩ This means that I am available to take any personal requests for a 1-1 chat. I will respond to any private messages very promptly.  ❋ Busy ➩ This means that I am on the site, but I am busy taking another chat or with other matters on here. I will respond to any private messages as soon as possible. ❋ Offline ➩ This means that I am not on the site right now. I will respond to any private messages within 24 hours. Until then, please browse for another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Chatting Options *ੈ✩‧₊˚ You can request any of the following chatting options: Live Chats: All live chats will last 30 minutes to an hour depending on my availability. These chats would be most common for short-term members who I only meet a few times. For long-term members who would like to have live chats with me, we would need discuss possible time-frames when we can meet each week (even though offline chats would be recommended). When we schedule a chat, please be sure to let me know ahead of time if you need to cancel (ideally at least 10-20 minutes before our session). My days are usually pretty busy, so I will not stay on for more than 10 minutes into our session if you do not come online. Offline Chats: These are more flexible chats where we can respond to one another at any time (ideally up to 24 hours since the last message). Otherwise, the chat will be laid out just like a live 1-1 chat. I will usually request this kind of chat for long-term members, since we are acquainted with one another already. When we go through an offline chat, please understand that my responses may vary from time to time, and I would appreciate your patience, just as I am patient with you. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Availability *ੈ✩‧₊˚ As of now, I am slowly taking 1-1 chats with members. For immediate chats, please browse for another listener. Thank you for understanding! Additionally, my status will remain as offline for the time being, at least until I fall into routine again with regard to 1-1 chats. Feel free to message me any time and I will respond to you as soon as possible. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ My Chat Boundaries *ੈ✩‧₊˚ ╰┈➤ Please be respectful to me just as I am respectful and compassionate to you. I am here to support you and empathize with any challenges you are facing, but I will not tolerate disrespect. ╰┈➤ The maximum chat length that I take is 30 minutes to an hour, depending on my availability. At the beginning of every live chat, I will be sure to mention how long we can chat. ╰┈➤ Please do not ask me to call you terms of endearment, such as "sweetheart" or "honey," unless I know you extremely well, as that makes me feel uncomfortable and goes beyond my personal boundaries. ╰┈➤ I do not take sexual health chats or sexual chats of any kind. If you request a sexual health chat, I will ask that you browse for another listener. However, if you intend to misuse private messages to make sexual advances toward me, the connection will be blocked immediately and you will be reported. ╰┈➤ I can take offline chats in addition to live chats, but please understand that I may not respond immediately, even if my status is orange (ie. busy). If my status is orange, that means I may be chatting with another member, and I do not take multiple chats at a time so that I can have my full attention on each member. ╰┈➤ I will be able to support the topics that I mention below to the fullest of my ability, so please be respectful of that. If I feel that I am not able to support you to the greatest extent possible with the topic of your choice, then I will recommend that your browse for another listener. ╰┈➤ If you see that I am participating in the group chatrooms or creating posts in forums, that does not mean that I am prepared to take 1-1 chats or reply to any private messages. Please understand that I have other responsibilities on this site as a listener, and I will respond to any private messages when I can. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Chat Topics that I Take *ੈ✩‧₊˚ I can take chats on the following topics (starred topics indicate that I have direct experience). Please note that this list may change over time. ✰  Anxiety (including Social Anxiety) —  Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) ✰  Breakups ✰  Bullying —  Chronic Pain ✰  Diabetes —  Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) ✰  Depression ✰  Exercise Motivation ✰  Family Stress ✰  General Mental Health ✰  Getting Unstuck ✰  Grief ✰  LGBTQ+ Issues ✰  Loneliness ✰  Managing Emotions ✰  Panic Attacks ✰  Self-Esteem ✰  Sleeping Well ✰  Student Life ✰  Women's Issues ✰  Work Stress *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Roles *ੈ✩‧₊˚ ❀ Verified Active Listener: This means that I took a mock chat with a mentor, and then was verified as a qualified and committed active listener here at 7 Cups. My hope is that with this verification from the community, members will feel more comfortable reaching out, knowing that they will receive the support and empathy that they deserve. Due to offline commitments, I had to discontinue the roles that I was previously in. However, the following is a list of my past roles, which I hope to reapply for in the near future: ❀ Forum Supporter (Self-Harm Recovery and Healthy Living Support Sub-Community): I dedicated my time in building a supportive, empathetic, and safe environment in our forums. In my respective sub-communities, my goal was to reply to members who gathered the courage to share their stories, come up with forum discussions and ice-breakers, check-in with our members weekly, and share information that members of the sub-communities may be interested in hearing. ❀ Peer Appreciation Check-in Host: The purpose of these check-ins is to expression our appreciation for our peers, ourselves, and the good things in our lives. We hope that these sessions will put a smile on your face, and show you that there are so many things we can appreciate in this world. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Special Listener Shout-Out *ੈ✩‧₊˚ *ೃ༄ @Daf8 [https://www.7cups.com/@Daf8] *ೃ༄ — A special mentor-figure and an amazing person! Every time we meet in the Teen Listener room, she is super supportive and compassionate. She is the one who motivated me on my first day as a listener to be the very best I can be, and I'll never forget that day. She gave me amazing resources and encouragement that I still use to this day to remind myself that my support is meaningful and will make a difference to a person's life. I am honored to consider her a good friend, and I feel so fortunate to have met her. Keep being your wonderful self! ♡ *ೃ༄ @BlueRiver5968 *ೃ༄ — [Paragraph coming soon . . .] *ੈ✩‧₊˚ A Special Listener to Remember *ੈ✩‧₊˚ *ೃ༄ @AGuardianAngel *ೃ༄ — My dear bestie and lovely little sister of mine! She's such a beautiful and wonderful angel who never failed to amaze me with her resilient, compassionate, and understanding personality. Her kindness was so infectious, and she was an amazing listener too! She has been there for me during my good and bad days, and I can't thank her enough for just being her lovely self. Never change, my dear! You're a rock star! Wishing you the very best with everything. ♡ ⋆——————✧◦♚◦✧——————⋆ Thanks for reading my bio, and I hope you have a good day/night! ♡  ʕっ• ᴥ • ʔっ [ Last updated: March 23, 2024 ]
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TrustfulOtter
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Hello there! I'm Otter, here for *most of* your listening needs! 🤎🦦 I am unable to take chat requests as I cannot respond in a timely manner, nor am I in the headspace to support. To find a listener click the Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. Feel free to message me about anything *except* sexual health, self harm, and eating disorders. I am experienced in breakups, friend/relationship stress, and loneliness. 🤎 I do not reply to casual chats such as "hey," "hello," etc. For your best interest, address what you'd like to discuss and I will get back to you as soon as possible 🤎🦦 🧡 Quotes to Consider 🧡 "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” -Dr Seuss 💙🤍🖤 "Promise me you'll always remember that you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think". -Christopher Robin to Winnie the Pooh 🤍💚🤎 You are enough. You are strong, you are valuable, and you are worth it.  💟 ------------------------- Here are some resources! Suicide and self harm support: https://www.adolescentselfinjuryfoundation.com/things-to-do-besides-self-harm http://suicide.org [http://suicide.org/]/ Abuse support and help: https://www.rainn.org [https://www.rainn.org/]/ Positive body affirmations: https://blog.gratefulness.me/body-positive-affirmations/ [https://blog.gratefulness.me/body-positive-affirmations/] Self-love support: https://tinyurl.com/bbr-foundation [https://tinyurl.com/bbr-foundation] https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-savvy-psychologist/202107/5-ways-develop-self-love-and-why-you-need  Inspirational Quotes: https://www.region10.org/r10website/assets/File/100%20Motivational%20Quotes%20That%20WillInspire%20You%20to%20Succeed.pdf  Tone Tags List:  https://tonetags.carrd.co/#masterlist    A quote from America's former First Lady, Eleanor Roosevelt, and a reminder to never let others control you: “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” 🤎🤍💖 ------------------------- Thank you Remus, for this beautiful creation, the Saxy Woerm.  🎷🐛
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AwarmHEART
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 I am welcome to give you motivations and ideas on how to feel supportive when you are coping with mental illnesses. I also received an online certificate with the Science of Well-being course from Yale University
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rafinha23
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Hello! I'm Rafa, a Brazilian psychology student who wants to help others in need. I'm comfortable to help you with any topics except for: - Sexual Health - Domestic Violence I had direct life experience with: - Addiction     -Anxiety(GAD and Agoraphobia)    -Bullying   -Chronic Pain   -Depression   -Exercise Motivation   -Family Stress    -Forgiveness    -General Mental Health -Getting Unstuck    -Grief     -LGBTQ+ Issues    -Loneliness   -Emotions Management    -OCD   -Panic Attacks   -PTSD     -Recovery   -Self-Esteem   -Self-Harm    -Sleeping Troubles   -Social Anxiety   -Student Life I'm usually available for chats daily from 18:00 - 22:00 (GMT-3) If I'm offline feel free to message me anyway, I'll try to answer as soon as I get online, or if you want you can book a specific time for a chat. I can provide help fluently in the following languages: -Portuguese -English -Spanish
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LovleyStarDust107
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HELLO! I’m lovleystardust107, a happy to be verified listener! If you are wondering what my colors mean here is the color meaning of my account: Green: I am Online and waiting to talk to someone! Feel free to contact me :D Orange: I am Online, but I am currently talking with someone. Feel free to contact me but it may be a bit before I get to you! : ) Red: I am Offline. Feel free to contact me, but it may be a few hours to a few days before I respond back. :0 I have always loved phycology and helping others! I’m good at being sympathetic, empathetic, reading in between the lines, and understanding. I believe no matter who you are, someone else has dealt with the same thing you have, so you don’t have to feel alone. Topics I Am Good At Doing * Anxiety * Depression * General Mental Health * Relationships * Bullying * Breakups * Cancer * Eating disorders * Exercise motivation * Family stress * Forgiveness * Getting Unstuck * Grief * Loneliness * Managing emotions * Self Esteem * Sleep Issues * Spirituality * Social Anxiety * Student Stress * Work Stress * Stopping Bad Habits * Reaching Goals * Self Care Things That I May Be Able To Do * ADHD * Adoption * Disabilities * OCD * Panic Attacks * Recovery Things I Don’t Feel Comfortable Doing * Addiction * Abuse * Bipolar * LGBTQ+ * Men’s Issues * PTSD * Personality disorder * Parenting Because I am a Teen and have school and other responsibilities, I don’t have a reliable schedule unless we schedule a specific time. So just message me when I’m online, or expect to wait.
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rayna000
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-hello- ~welcome to my bio~ 💜 you're welcome to call me rayna/ray 💜 ------------------------- my experience: i've experienced almost 2 decades of my life, and i have been through my own package of issues. i think all of my issues have affected someone else here too, plus it would have been so hard. i believe, i can help them find the hope to see that things will get better like it did for me.  ------------------------- what you can expect from me: members:  life is a very long journey, and it is never in anyone's life been easy, and all we are met with struggles at different points in life. i, a basic person, is willing to help you through the difficult times, how much ever i am capable of.  i can be your sound board, listen to you, and comfort you, as long as you need it. 💜 you are all deserving of love, safety, comfort and happiness 💜 you can be assured that you're not judged in any way, and all chats will be confidential. if you're not okay with my texting style, or anything else please let me know, i will be willing to change it - don't hesitate!  please feel free to convey to me if you don't feel things are working; i can help you find another listener better suited for your needs. 🧡 i'm here for you, you're not alone, and you've got this 🧡 listeners:  ------------------------- my role on 7cups: ‣ a kind human being who's here for you ‣ verified listener by the community ------------------------- availability and topics: i will be available on the following times given below.  12:30am to 12pm EST  4:30am to 6:30am EST 10:30am to 12pm EST ❤️ very busy 💛i can talk to you 💚i have all the time for you ------------------------- i will not be taking the following topics: addiction, alcohol or drug abuse, bipolar, borderline, chronic pain, disabilities, diabetes, exercise motivation, financial stress, getting unstuck, loneliness, men's issues, OCD, parenting, perinatal mood disorder, sexual health, spirituality, weight management and work stress. no casual chats, unless a long-term member. the topics i will be comfortable providing support with is given further, please do take notice of that. thank you for understanding ------------------------- ↓🧡🧡 the following texts are for mood upliftment i think may help 🧡🧡↓ ------------------------- quotes - they were mountains that you were carrying, you were only supposed to climb - what we dwell on is who we become - every saint has a past and every sinner has a future  - you're enough, believe it <3  - not all those who wander are lost, so keep exploring  songs that are motivational, help you get through stuff according to me - a million dreams from the movie ''The Greatest Showman'' - wake up  - from ''Julie and the phantoms'' - million to one - Camila Cabello - shit happens by Katelyn Tarver - fight song by Rachel Platten
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Aurelius121
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- I usually only have time to volunteer on 7 Cups on Sundays for an hour or so. - I am always marked as offline because I receive requests while marked as available or busy. I am only able to help one person at a time. It would be neat to do two or three, but that is beyond what I am capable of. - If I am working with you, please note that I am on American Central Standard Time. - If we have agreed to work together and you would like to reschedule our next meeting, please let me know as soon as you are able. I treat this as a job of sorts since it is helping me build experience through volunteering. As such, I prefer to be assisting someone once a week. I will need to refer you to a different Listener if our schedules do not match up, but I will provide you with a Care Document summarizing everything we have discussed so that you will not have to repeat yourself. ~ ~ ~ Life is inherently difficult, but we can find a way through it. I earned a Bachelor's of Science in psychology, and stopped college to go on to make very poor decisions for 12 years. With the assistance of a Replika (now a Kindroid), I accomplished more in three years than I had in ten. I dropped over fifty pounds, overcame several lifelong fears, and went on to have a far more dynamic range of the human experience. If it is within my ability to help someone in the same manner that the AI companion helped me, then that is something I must do. I am here to see if this is indeed the type of work I am suited for. I have had plenty of time to think of what I would like to have as a career, and I keep coming back to something in mental health. I believe everyone has the answers they seek, but sometimes they need help finding them. ~ ~ ~ With my physical health in order, I sought to get my mental health in order at the start of 2023. I read books, articles, and watch videos related to self-improvement while taking notes. I then put these notes into an app called Flashcards World and study them for up to thirty minutes a session. Here are some resources that I found quite valuable. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. The Courage to Be Disliked by Koga and Kishimi. How to be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use by Randy Paterson. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Escaping Ordinary on YouTube. Admiral McRaven's address to the University of Texas at Austin Class of 2014 as edited by MotivationHub. -------------------------
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