Â Welcome everyone!
I am a 35+ listenersÂ Â if you are a student please connect with a listenerÂ HERE and select "student life"I also don't take chats about abuse, if you need help please join a listener on HEREI don't take any chat whose topic is sex
That's something i want to share with you all, enjoy!Â Click HEREHere is what someone saidÂ Â :We have complex emotions, just because we're not 'okay' doesn't mean we are any less than anyone. We all have our own moments, if you find someone needs you, just help them. Some day you may find someone who would do the same and would care for you.
I'm not going to even try to pretend that we are the same person, that we've gone through the same things. We haven't. All I know is that every single human on earth is a sum of our experiences. No one is good or evil. We are all just equations. Experiences+ the chemicals present in our brains=you. I'm here to help because...I want to.
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If for some reason it is green but I am not responding, please note that I am generally only available during the hours of 10am-11pm CST. If you are contacting me outside these hours because the status is green, it is a site glitch.Â It has been determined that there is a current problem with my status in the search results; it shows me as always available. Please refer to the chat window for my current status and understand that I am unable to control the errors that occur on the website.
Hi! My name is Lynn, and I'm glad you've found me! I'm a trained listener with a degree in English and psychology as well as professional training in peer counseling. I am NOT a professional psychologist, and I cannot provide therapy services. My scholarly focuses were in ethnic, cultural and gender studies, and psychological studies in abnormal psychology and human sexuality. You'll find me to be exceptionally open-minded and able to talk about practically anything that is on your mind. I am GLBTQ+ friendly. I have personal experience with a number of things, and my professional training has focused mostly on sexuality, depression/anxiety management, and autism spectrum disorder. In my free time, I enjoy writing, movies, and MUSIC!!! Feel free to reach out to me anytime I'm online, and if I'm not, I'll respond to messages as soon as I can after getting notice.
Please read previous member reviews before connecting with me. If you're a fellow listener, I appreciate your interest, but I will hold you accountable to the listener agreement and will not provide emotional wellness support outside the parameters of that agreement, no exceptions!
I am, in general, an acute situation listener. I focus on immediate needs. This means I'm not likely to "just chat" though I am open to doing so. Just note that I focus on emotional crisis first.Â I do not have long-term relationship availability at this time.Â
I am also a person living with ASD. My vocabulary and style of speech has been accused of being mean, harsh, aggressive, you name it, I've heard it. I cannot help it, and I cannot change it. Believe me, I've tried. If you're sensitive to that sort of thing, it's best to move on! This being said, IÂ amÂ a person and I have feelings. All I can do is try my best, but I limit my support list for a reason and ask certain questions at the start so we can be on the same page.
My style is to talk about progressive approaches and necessary steps, whether or not they "feel good"... I'm not one to try and package up harsh realities in fuzzy packages. I firmly believe that every adult has the ultimate responsibility for their feelings and their response to those feelings, so a discussion with me will be about accountability, self-honesty and can sometimes be a "rude" reality check. My expectation for members that talk to me is that they have read this description and accept that this is what they will get from me; that I expect them to be a grown adult, able to speak about issues with maturity and a desire for affirmation and change, and will understand that it is up to them and them alone where the power lies. I am simply a facilitator in your own conversation with yourself; if something I say is sharp, hits home, there is a reason.
Generally speaking, I do not provide support for relationship issues, domestic violence, sexual trauma, discussions of incest and/or other non-consensual sexual experiences. I do not provide detailed discussions of sexual desires, fetishes or dysfunctions; if you need help in this area, I recommend working with a professional.I cannot discuss self-harm, suicidal ideation/events, or abuse events. Please seek support from another listener if you need this kind of help, or reach out to suicide.org
As any listener on here has the right to do, I reserve the right and ability to set conversational boundaries and protect myself as an emotional being. If at any time I feel that either involved party is at risk during our conversations, I will advise as much and do my best to direct the member to the best path.
While I have professional training and education, I cannot provide therapy services or fill in as a replacement for your mental health professional.Â
"The sad know the need to keep others happy."
Â Ahoy you person who's taken the time to read my bio, here are a few things i'd tell you before we start off :31) I'm wushycushy, and I'm an emotional pillow for you to discuss whatever you want to2) I'm not gonna judge, don't worry, this is a help site, not some courtroom <3
Â 3) I am able to take chats on almost any issue so there's no stopping you from talking what's wrong, be it -the neighbor stole my potato- or - the nearby country is taking my land-
Â 4)I'm kink friendly (yes, I said I can take chats on almost anything, but this needed a special mention so your doubts will be removed)5) I'm slow and when we talk, you get the benefit of being the smart and cute one while I'm the dumb and slow one6) I'm patient, I'm so patient that I use Internet Explorer to watch videos on YouTube.
Â 7) Even if nothing's wrong and you feel you want to talk, I'm here and all ears(or eyes in this case).
Â 8) I don't know why I'm writing this but I thought writing one more point would be good.
9) I don't listen as a listener, I listen as a friend :)
10) What are you waiting for, just drop me a text and let a bond be formed :')-Insert cool tagline about self-
If you want to know about me, I love animals, and I love all animals except insects, they make me go the same way a cat goes on seeing a dog. I love to read books (yes Harry Potter is an all time favorite.)
Cooking is amazing for me (although I've probably got a repute for my food being inedible).
Music- I listen to all kinds of music as long as my ears like it and and I also play the Piano, the mouth organ, and sing, although my near and dear ones discourage me from doing it for the sake of their ears.
Movies- I am a huge movie buff and a great fan of the Marvel franchiseTV shows- I absolutely WORSHIP Doctor Who(like you may have guessed from the images hehe), House, Friends, Whose line is it anyway, Impractical joker (Joe Gatto is the best!!!)
Sports- I love to play basketball as well as swimming, although I barely follow them :3
Miscellaneous- I love to irritate the people I love, obsess over potatoes and pizza, create random animal noises, be a six feet tall baby, listen to people and help them out.Here are the people of my family -
@peanat- she's one of the first person who acknowledged my idioticy and embraced it, love her the most <3
@Olala18- this tiny ball of fire is sure to win your heart with her extremely charming behaviour and caring attitude, watch out for her because she is NUTS about Bollywood
@Youareloved33- The listener who is always sad love her :cÂ
@KingAl- this lovely listener will always talk in P!ATD stoof and will always help you and even if you're happy, talking to her makes you happier so go for it!!
@Annanas- She's a bright light who's got this obsession with Bastille :3 and who failed to help me with my bio, but apart from that, she'll never give up on you :3 and sticks around-Warning-Doesn't know internet slang
@Glue- Ayye this boi right here is a completely messed up bottle of icky stuff that's always oozing with honest opinions and self loathe and I respek him so much that he hates me :3
@FadingStarDust- My shipmate we're on the ship of stushy forever whoooo, if you ever plan to hold a grudge against someone , she'll give you five different ways to terminate that person because she cares for you so much
@Isha2017- the tiny ancient who can always be found lurking on TL or pretending to be busy with nothing, If you ever want to annoy this marvelous person- say 42.This teenie right here is now completed her internship so she can officially pretend to be a busy person hehe
@TsukinoTheHag- ths wonderful amazebubbles listener is always there to listen to you and if you're not talking she will take the liberty of being so cute that you talk to her about your problems so never hesitate to approach her :3
@Yendi- yendoodlepoodle the link keeper, she's always carrying a stash of important links with her and has two dogs which I am very jealous of her for. She loves to lurk and can be found being a good support in the chat rooms
@ArwaS-the mother hen of TL always helping out the tiny tots figuring out how to walk in this floofy world :3 you can never not love her
@cuddlyPanda22- MY ORIGINAL LISTENER TWIN RILEY although you may probably never see her but she's one of the most beautiful pain you will ever see my spam buddy <3
@juniperstarfish1- watch out for this beautiful listener who can always make your day by supporting you. She is a rare species to find but amazing to experience.My real Explorer :3 she's just amazing and she knits, like HOW cool is that!?
@DonutBeAfraid73- the sweetest donut you will ever meet before you nom the up. She's patient AND friendly and listens to almost any rant :3.Love herÂ
@BlueGlobe- my glass buddy here is one of the most sought after person by the US for her preciousness, and she will be as weird as you want her to be :3
@Lucy- this listener who is god sent can be seen lurking or helping people or being bussy with all the busy stuff that keep people busy but she'll listen to you if you need her and never ever ever ever ever leaves your back. PM her if you're looking to talk to a bundle of awesome :3
@braveNight89- this leetle amazing Canadian listener has every bit of politeness integrated in her demeanour, you will be surprised by how many thank you-s and sorry-s she can say in a day
@ciaraaa- The candian who isn't actually a candian, give her filipnio food and she will totally forget the existence of the world, this worthless steak is extremely precious because of a tiny munchkin :')
@realityescaping- Salsaaaaa <3 this adorbs listener who works as a teen(weird Brit) will always be there to make your day and just help you smile, She's so amazing you can just see vibes emanating from her and her knowledge on potatoes is ooo insighfulÂ
@Fuzzyfizz12- this neighbor of mine is THE pokemon master because her puns are enough to send a man into cardiac arrest, she will listen to anything you want, and like every person, would deny to admit she's cute when she is
@Erato- this tiny listener is set on a mission to make the world a better place one smile at a time :). She's easily scared, just like a pug so be gentle with this amazing tiny ball of happiness <3
@RenaMinerva- this amazeball NOT evil cutie listener will always be there to make your day (even if it is the night) and would be more than happy to listen to anything you want to talk to her about, but be warned, she has a tendency of nomming hands so watch out :3
@MiraculousHorizon76- this listener is one who will never ever ever let you down and she's amazing because she will do whatever is in her capabilities to make sure you feel better, this drama queen is enough to make Gordon Ramsay smile. DW fanbuddy <3
@Viana- MY LITTLE DERI(pot) who LOVES DR WHO AND WHOSE LINE IS IT ANYWAY AND IMPRACTICAL JOKERS. Listen to her but be warned, she's easily terrified of Caps, so I prefer wearing hats only :3, but she's amazing and will stick with you till the end of time
@SookyChooky- meet my adorabubble little amazing hooman bean who refuses to believe in her own awesome and beautiful power.She's a whovian so I already love her and alzso one of the most charming, cheerful, beautiful and charismatic person I ever had the fortune of meeting.Â If you ever meet her, it'll make your day :3
@blissfulGrace96- this pretty listener with a pretty heart has a amazing sense of sensitivity, she seems to be loaded with a lot of empathy towards all and would not like to even talk about people getting hurt, she will never ignore you if you're in need :3
@ColourDoge- this amazing listener dog is the only one on this site and is seen to do it quite effectively as he will always make your day with his cute doggo skills :3, feed him pizza as treats :3
To all of the above
and as for me oldiefying , take it people :3
âMore smiling, less worrying. More compassion, less judgment. More blessed, less stressed. More love, less hate.âÂ Hi There My name is Sam! Im a very open minded person , i have dealt with a lot in my life been through alot ,Â i think of people as they are all equal and capable of doing a lot , would love to listen and get to know you and help you out with your troubles , just hit me and i'll get back to you as soon as i can , PEACE & LOVE !!Â
Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â "DON'T QUIT "Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, when the road your trudging seems
all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile, but
you have to sigh. Â When care is pressing you down a bit, Rest if you must, but don't you quit.Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â
I am a mature maleÂ concentrating ONLY on relationship problems within a real relationship (not long distance or internet relationships) including sexual problems. If you have a genuine problem within your marriage or relationship and wishÂ to talk about it in aÂ sensibleÂ and mature wayÂ then please message me.Â I understand that talking about sexual issuesÂ and intimacy problems can be difficult but be assured thatÂ whatever we talk about is in total confidence and will be handled sensitively and respectfully.*No Guests* I only take chat requests from registered users. If you are using a guest account I will not respond.If I am busy and reject your request then youÂ can leave me a message with a brief outline of what you need to talk about and I will try and get back to you when I can but beÂ aware that I probably won't respond to a one word introductionÂ and I definitely won't respond to Hey!Â I am straight talking and honest andÂ a very good listener (but I do not suffer fools or time wasters) and I will try to help to the best of my ability.Â My name is Dave, I am 52 years old, married and a parent so have a fair bit of life experience to share.Â
I bow to the Ruler of the Universe, whose very form is Liberation,
the omnipotent and all pervading Brahma, manifest as the Vedas.
I worship Shiva, shining in his own glory, without physical qualities,
Undifferentiated, desireless, all pervading sky of consciousness
and wearing the sky itself as His garment.
I bow to the supreme Lord who is the formless source of âOMâ
The Self of All, transcending all conditions and states,
Beyond speech, understanding and sense perception,
Awe-full, but gracious, the ruler of Kailash,
Devourer of Death, the immortal abode of all virtues.
I worship Shankara, whose form is white as the Himalyan snow,
Radiant with the beauty of countless Cupids,
Whose head sparkles with the Ganga
With crescent moon adorning his brow and snakes coiling his neck,
The beloved Lord of All,
with shimmering pendants hanging from his ears,
Beautiful eyebrows and large eyes,
Full of Mercy with a cheerful countenance and a blue speck on his throat.
I worship Shankara, Bhavaniâs husband,
The fierce, exalted, luminous supreme Lord.
Indivisible, unborn and radiant with the glory of a million suns;
Who, holding a trident, tears out the root of the three-fold suffering,
And who is reached only through Love.
You who are without parts, ever blessed,
The cause of universal destruction at the end of each round of creation,
A source of perpetual delight to the pure of heart,
Slayer of the demon, Tripura, consciousness and bliss personified,
Dispeller of delusionâ¦
Have mercy on me, foe of Lust.
Oh Lord of Uma, so long as you are not worshipped
There is no happiness, peace or freedom from suffering
in this world or the next.
You who dwell in the hearts of all living beings,
and in whom all beings have their existence,
Have mercy on me, Lord.
I donât know yoga, prayer or rituals,
But everywhere and at every moment, I bow to you, Shambhu!
Protect me my Lord, miserable and afflicted as I am
with the sufferings of birth, old-age and death.
This eightfold hymn of praise was sung by the Brahman to please Shankara.
Shambhu will be pleased with whomever heartfully recites it.
He is white like camphor and the very incarnation of mercy and compassion,
The only good thing in this world, wearing a king cobra as a garland
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Hello! I would loveÂ to talk to you, because I have dealt with many of the issues you are going through. I know multiple people with eating disorders, I have anxiety, depression, am LGBTQ+, and used to self-harmÂ myself, and I hope these experiences can help you.Even if I'm not online, please leave a message and I'll get back to you ASAP! Sometimes I'm online even when 7cups says I'm not.My schedule (All EST) (Green are the times I'll be here to give you my full attention! Orange is when my responses might be delayed!):
Monday- 6:15am-7am; 9:10am-9:45am; 12:35pm-1:15pm;Â 3:30pm-4:30pm; 4:30pm-5:30pm; 5:30pm-9pmTuesday- 6:30am-7:30am; 9:10am-9:45am; 12:35pm-1:15pm;Â 3:30pm-5pm; 8pm-9pmWednesday- 6:15am-7am;Â 9:10am-9:45am; 12:35pm-1:15pm;Â 3:30pm-4:30pm; 4:30pm-8pm; 8pm-9pmThursday- 6:30am-7:30am;Â 9:10am-9:45am; 12:35pm-1:15pm;Â 3:30pm-5pm; 5pm-6pm; 6pm-9pmFriday- 6:30am-7:30am;Â 9:10am-9:45am; 12:35pm-1:15pm; 3:30pm-6pm;Â 6pm-9pmSaturday and Sunday is whenever I can be on!
Like I said before, please message me even when I'm not online! I might respond, just don't expect immediate responses.
Hello! Iâm Light, as in âa light that can guide you out of your darknessâ.
I am open to talking about most issues(sexual health excluded) and will do my best to help you feel better about yourself/your situation.Â
If thereâs a green light, then Iâm on the site and ready to chat! If thereâs an orange light, Iâm on the site, but Iâm busy. You can still message me though. If thereâs a red light, then Iâm currently not on the site/forgot to move my icon, but you can still message me and Iâll get back to you when I can.Â
Thereâs a list of issues I can help with to the right. If thereâs a yellow star, then I have personal experience with that issue.Â
My general availablility is Monday-Friday at 5-6 PM EST, and Monday-Thursday at 8-9:30 PM EST. I am on at random times throught the week, though.Â
A little bit about me!
Iâm an agender teen(so they/them pronouns, please) who loves cats, dragons, sharks, and snakes.Â
I enjoy drawing, writing, reading books, cooking, grilling, playing videogames, listening to music, and spending time outdoors.Â
I play basketball and play-fight with my sibling.Â
Hello I am glad to be a 7 cups listener. I am interested in nature, animals, books. And have expertise in learning disabilities and creative writing as a healing tool. And if you just want to talk I would be glad to join a conversation.
Waa a fighter came! Hello, I'm glad you decided to check here for support. I am a listener in training and like to support people struggling in life. I've myself overcome some of my problems through talking and listening and I'll try my best to support you on your path. So feel free to message me anytime regarding anything. If I'm online I'll try to reply back as soon as I can or well even if I'm offline I'll be here soon