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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

bubbletea17
L Intermediate 1 780
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with whatever big or small issues in life. I enjoy reading, drawing, listening to music, and watching movies/TV shows. I would like to help by listening to you--I may not always know the right thing to say but will do my best in providing my thoughts as well but what will always be there is support and a hearing ear. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!
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Suranta
L Maven 3 1749
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups.  I'm an active, trained listener and I like to support people struggling with any issues they wish to discuss. What do I try to do on 7 Cups? My main reason for being here is to listen, support and comfort our members and guests. What we chat about is always directed by the member/guest and I will never push anyone to talk about issues that they’re not comfortable sharing. You want to know about me? Thank you! Well, I consider myself to be empathetic to all and 100% non-judgmental. I have suffered from depression, anxiety, loneliness and low self-esteem so I can particularly relate to anyone with any or all of these issues.  Finally. I do respond to all messages, normally within 24 hours (except for weekends when I don't log in to 7 Cups) Take care. Suranta. 
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weallthesame
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I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling in thier life. I enjoy (hiking, reading ). I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!     Listener Buddy: TheListener7867    
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RomanticJ
L Sage 12 3285
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"The mind is its own place, and in it self Can make a Heav’n of Hell, a Hell of Heav’n.”  
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KristenHR
L Paragon 2 4275
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If you request a chat, you'll need to state your purpose.  I ONLY take chats from those working on recovery from eating disorders and trauma (with PTSD & Dissociation) and those making decision on college and careers.   I am not available to chat real-time any longer, but we can message back and forth.  I spend most of my support time in the Eating Disorder community due to my time limitations of committing to long-term chats.  https://www.7cups.com/forum/eds/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/eds/].  I love life.  I enjoy helping.  My focus is recovery from abuse and sexual trauma, eating disorders and dissociation.  I have interests in university internships and career development.  I am a Christian and that gives me strength. If you are wanting faith-based support, please let me know. I know that for some individuals, Christians have been very hurtful. If you are not a Christian, I'm not here to judge or impose my spiritual beliefs - I'm here to listen. I will not talk to you about God unless you ask to talk about faith.  I do not take theological chats. https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 - Time Zone Converter:  Eastern Time is New York time. IMy involvement with 7 Cups: Listener - Eating Disorders, Trauma, PTSD, Dissociation, Careers & College (Including internships) Project Agent - Safety Team Forum Mentor - Eating Disorder Community Group Mentor - Eating Disorder Community
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violetPotion
L Advanced 9 703
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The mystery of life isn't a problem to solve, but a reality to experience. A process that cannot be understood by stopping it. 
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GentlestGiant
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Welcome to 7 Cups. My name is Robbie, and I would be honored if you would allow me to be your Listener for a while. I have done a lot of living in my somewhat short-ish existence; and a lot of that living involved some rather harsh and painful obstacles. I've managed to sort through quite a bit, and come out on the other end a better person (at least I hope so!!). At one time or another, I've faced: an alcoholic and drug-addicted sibling, traumatic breakup from someone, being bullied in middle school, stresses that come from having a family torn apart by tragedy, a supremely stressful work environment, along with the depression, anxiety (plus panic disorder), and problems sleeping that you'd expect would result from having survived all these things. I've also been doing my best to cope with PTSD.  Obviously I am no expert...what I am is someone softhearted, intelligent, compassionate, affectionate, and honest. I am always more than happy to listen to others, and will do my very best to help you. Together, we can figure it out...together, we can help one another and learn from the experience of having shared a brief moment in time as confidants and friends. I hope you'll give me a chance to do that. While I am happy to be here for whoever wishes to talk to me, please note that I am not currently accepting any new long-term Members.  A few chat sessions is fine, but I do not have the energy right now for anything long-term.  I will also not accept any chats about incest.  I've been lied to about that topic before and it just isn't worth it for me to risk.
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GuiOakes
L Genius 4 3878
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/// Please send me personal request or personal message while I am away, I will get back to you as soon as I can. \\\ Hi there, I am NS and I am a verified listener on 7cups since 2020, if you are feeling low, if you are in pain and you want to rant out and need someone to hear you out, you can talk to me.  This is a safe place, I don't judge, I don't give advice, whatever happens between us stays between us, you can let yourself out, and I'll listen to you. I personally have gone through many issues alone when I didn't want to because I didn't have anyone, I try to be a person who I could have relied on when I went through my dark episodes in life, and I want to help you in the same way by being someone whom you can rely upon with your deepest and darkest problems. I know how it feels when life seems to be going in a downward spiral, but I can reassure you that while things may not seem fine, they will be better in long term. Its hard going through the hurdles of life alone, when faced with tough times, you don't have to go through it alone, you can rely on me, on us. Being a listener, don't hesitate to approach me if you want to talk about any topic you'd like. We can talk about anything you are going through to anything you are passionate about. Everyone is welcomed here, even listeners who might be going through something they wanna rant or discuss about but make sure to use your member account for that. I prioritize comfort, boundaries and listening above everything, if you do have any topics or any boundaries you feel uncomfortable discussing, let me know. I'll make sure not to cross any of them.  A note to myself and others who might be going through their own problems: You are a human, a flawed one. You make mistakes like everyone does, you aren't different from others. We all are different, all our problems are different but no matter how small they seem in your eyes, they are valid nonetheless. Happiness and Suffering and two sides of same coin called life. There will be times so tough you want to give up, and there will be times where you cannot contain your happiness. No matter how tough life seems right now, don't give up. You are valid. Your problems are valid. Your experiences are valid. Don't let people who say otherwise, influence you into thinking you are worthless, because most of the times, its self projection. Talk to me, ill listen. Don't let your negative self influence you into thinking everything's worthless and there's no point in talking about it, at a cosmos level, nothing really matters. But right now, in the moment, you are living, you are experiencing, so it does matter, at least right now. Its going to be alright, even if it doesn't in the moment feels so, let talk and open up and try to make things alright. pfp by wooma from shama- Shama - Utattemita/Miyashita Yuu - YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpuyx_Y_Hw0] PS- I like to give huge and tight hugs, ill give you too, as much as you want :p​
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kindheartedLily
L Connoisseur 2 727
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**I am unavailable to take on new member chat**  Please reach out to another listener if you need support by clicking here to browse listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. My response time may be slower on weekdays. I appreciate your patience and understanding 💙 Hi and welcome! I'm a trained active listener and am here to listen and offer support. As someone who has struggled with their own mental health, I understand the value of having someone to talk to during tough times. I use my education, along with my own lived experience, to support and guide others on their journey. I'm here to listen with zero judgment. You are not alone 💜  🔶 My roles on 7 Cups🔶 Lead Team Leader of the Listener Coaching Team Quality Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Coach Chat Support Safety Patrol Team Teen Transition Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Verified Listeners Team  Team Lightship **This is a great tool to convert GMT to your time zone: https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/ [https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/] ------------------------- Status Green: This means I am online and available to start a conversation. Please don't hesitate to reach out and message me.   Orange: This means I'm online but am busy talking with other members and am unable to take more chats. You are more than welcome to send me a message and I will respond as soon as I can. Red: This means I'm offline. Please don't hesitate to message me and I will respond when I am back online. 
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themerlin
L Intermediate 1 220
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I am deeply passionate about helping others and providing a listening ear to those in need because I understand firsthand the pain and struggles that life can bring. After experiencing my own share of hurt and challenges, I have come to realize the immense importance of having someone to confide in and share burdens with. It is heartbreaking to see others going through similar difficulties and feeling alone in their struggles, which is why I am driven to be there for them in their time of need. I believe that everyone deserves to have a safe space where they can express themselves freely without fear of judgment or criticism. My own experiences have taught me the power of empathy and understanding, and I am committed to being the supportive presence that I wished I had during my own darkest moments. By offering compassion, empathy, and a non-judgmental listening ear, I hope to provide solace and support to those who are navigating their own challenges. I want to be the person that I never had – someone who genuinely cares and is willing to listen without reservation or prejudice.
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EmpathicPikachu
L Proficient 8 1575
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"These pains, you feel, are messengers. Listen to them." (Rumi) Hello, fellow human being. How are you? Not good? Worry not, you are not alone in this. You are a survivor and so brave to ask for help when you need it. As Rumi said, pain is a messenger. You must listen to that messenger. The message, it carries, has the key to the progress, you seek. So, lets talk about it? Shall we? Lets make you feel better now. Have a glass of water and talk. Bit about myself I have been active listener on 7cups for quite a while. I like being able to make a positive difference in people's life. When I am not on 7cups, I am probably busy in real life. I am 27 years old  I like to watch movies (huge fan of Marvel and DC), listen to songs (especially Coke Studio) and sleep (Yup, I can sleep anytime even typing it) P.S. I am not online always because of busy routine. If you are in need of immediate help, look out for other listeners by "Browse Listeners" You are welcome to drop a message, I'll try to reply in few days.
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comfortableNight4463
L Veteran 11 2088
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Hi! I'm Night. I am here to provide support by listening to you.  I am available on; Tuesday (10PM to 12AM EST) Wednesday (8PM to 10PM EST) Thursday (6PM to 8PM EST) Friday (10 AM to 2PM and 8PM to 10PM EST)  Saturday (8PM to 10PM EST) Sunday (10AM to 2PM EST) *All times are in EST (United States)
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