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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. I’m a listener since 2015, and it’s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. I’m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here : AL 1 Updates - tinyurl.com/5atmkecv AL2 Updates - tinyurl.com/2x54ymp5 AL3 Updates - tinyurl.com/mvdm4j5e  AL4 Updates - tinyurl.com/3ssp6pwf To know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need help or guidance on your ongoing chats.

|| psy || Stop running. Just walk. Take in the scenery. You are in no hurry for anything. It's just your surroundings make you feel you need to urge for something. Just breathe. There is no such thing as "success" or "being successful." Success is just an idea between human beings who can't afford what they have already.  Don't try to win. Just enjoy your life without disturbing other living beings. Winning would eventually make you lose your mind. Winning is boasting material. So, just keep on living. All the best, Enjoy.

On break, currently not involved in any community roles. 

Unfortunately, I am not available to assist 1-1 member support chats on weekends. I do not feel comfortable discussing Men's Issues or Sexual Health. Thank you for your understanding! :)  Song List: Should I Stay or Should I Go by The Clash Girls Just Wanna Have Fun by Cindy Lauper All Star by Smashmouth I Love Rock 'N Roll by Joan Jett and the Blackhearts Bad Reputation by Joan Jett Teenage Dirtbag by Wheatus Old Time Rock and Roll by Bob Serger California Dreamin by The Mamas and the Papas At Last! by Etta James I Have Nothing by Whitney Houston One Way Or Another by Blondie My Girl by The Temptations  Just That Girl by Drew Seeley Sirius by The Alan Parsons Project Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again by Emmy Rossum & Andrew Lloyd Webber You'll Be In My Heart by Phil Colins Quotes: "To live a quiet life in a loud world is not to never speak, it is to only speak what truly matters" - Twerp (Pearl) "If you want the world to see how beautiful you are, you just have to step out into it" - Fran Drescher, "The Nanny". "How could I explain the way we had so swiftly understood each other, the shorthand jokes, the blunt truths and raw secrets? How could I convey the way those short months had changed the way I felt about everything? The way he had skewed my world so totally that it made no sense without him in it?" - After You by Jojo Moyes. 2m + 56 = 4m 

FRENCH ONLY I only take French Chats. FRANCAIS  Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute et support dans les sujets suivants: - Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique - Autisme et TSA  - Automutilation - Vivre avec un handicap physique - problèmes de santé physique - Douleur chronique - maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives - Intimidation, taxage, discrimination - Diversité culturelle - LGBTQA+ - Gestion des émotions - Parentalité - Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain - Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes - Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT) - Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise - Troubles du comportement alimentaire - Stress financier - Vie étudiante - Ados vivant en familles d'acceuil/foyer de groupe/centre jeunesse, ou adultes qui y ont vécu enfant Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants: - Relations  - Ruptures amoureuses et divorce - Santé sexuelle et tout ce qui touche la sexualité (excepté les victimes d'abus sexuels qui sont les bienvenues) - Rencontres (dating) - Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme" J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes, tant pour du court terme, long terme et check-ins Sur rendez-vous seulement. Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne ou sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu. Merci de précisé votre besoin et sujet dans votre premier message. English My English is limited to a Low intermediate (B1) level so I don't take chats in English. If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms and I allowed you to message, of course you are free to message me (and specify it!) ;)  Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests without a specified topic will not be answered. Twin My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3

Bio in Portuguese and Spanish - https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fNTypEG5qrD1NjnFMrE7PdDV5frFHGqhTSZk1Jx7u9s/edit?usp=sharing I am unable to support topics about breakups, relationship stress, or sexual health. I am unavailable Saturday and Sunday.  Availability Monday - Thursday after 4 PM ET Friday between 10 AM ET - 6 PM ET I'm glad you’ve reached out. Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, and having someone to listen without judgment can make a difference. Whether you're feeling lost, anxious, or need space to share your thoughts, I’m here to support you. I aim to create a safe, empathetic environment where you can feel heard and understood. We all battle things, and thankfully, we don't have to do it alone, even if it's just someone on the other side of the screen offering support. Topics I support Bipolar Disorder, Domestic Violence, Grief, LGBTQ+, PTSD/Trauma(Sexual Abuse/Assault), Self-Harm, and Terminal Illness What to expect I focus on being a compassionate listener, asking thoughtful questions, and helping you process your emotions. My goal is to help you feel lighter by the end of our conversation. I believe in the power of kindness, honesty, and mutual respect in every chat. My chats are 1 hour long and I support repeating members once a week. Feel free to reach out when you're ready to talk. Let's walk this journey together, one step at a time. Twin Brian AnnaSilverberg Lefthanded Pals Bluerivercares, SparklesFly Listener Sextuplets blithesun94, colorfuluffy, coolvibes, Kristynsmama, Teagan, vivelespatates

"The reason for evil in the world is that people are not able to tell their stories" (Carl Jung). I've also noticed how different people navigate the same situations differently. Sharing is therefore healthy and important! I'm here to let you do exactly that and find your own growth. All Ears For You! 🙂🙏

Hi there! Welcome to my profile! *I am not taking 1-1 chats at the moment* I very recently graduated university. I studied psychology and now I volunteer as Internship ambassador here at 7 cups. Feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions regarding the Internship Project.  If you are reading this, send me a hi! :D  I might not reply immediately, but I try my best to reply as soon as I can (can sometimes take a couple of days) My Listener twin: @KeenEar96 

Hi🤍 Everyone out there if u need a Buddy to talk to or just vent out I am there for you I understand you so I'll listen to you and try my best to help you ❤️ So dear one remember you are not alone 💕

IMPORTANT- I am currently not taking chats at this time, seeing as I am barely on cups anymore. Please, feel free to vent into my dms, however, I cannot offer 1-on-1 support <3  Greetings Weary Traveler! I am so happy you stumbled upon my little page <3 I am proud of you for how far you’ve come. Why don’t you rest for a while, I am sure you need it? *offers blankets and a drink* Since you are here, why don’t we get to know each other a bit.  I am Bunny. I began my Listener journey over a year ago. I’m 17 years old, I am Homeschooled but in 12th grade (Year 13, Senior). I use He/They pronouns, but I know some of my members don’t feel comfortable with a male listener so I will say I am AFAB (assigned female at birth) My favorite color is Yellow. I don’t like making my bed because I like to sleep inside the blob. When I am not on 7cups, I am reading, crocheting, painting, or playing my clarinet! What about you? What is your name? Pronouns? I want to get to know you, hear about your life, the good, the bad, and the hairy. I mean scary xD.  What kind of chats do I offer? =>Support Chats on allowed Topics  =>Lighthearted Chats, for some comfort or a friend =>Book recommendation/ramble chats =>Chats with Age-regressed members  =>Jeffy chats  So you are probably wondering what all of those chats mean. Well let me break it down:  Support Chats on Allowed Topics: I do not take chats on Men’s Issues, Weight Loss, Exercise Motivation, or Cancer, due to personal triggers. I have lived experience in : Abuse, Adhd, Anxiety, Abandonment issues, Breakups, Bullying, Chronic Pain/illness, Depression, Disabilities, Dissociative Disorders, Dysphoria, Eating Disorders, Family Stress, Financial Stress, Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, LGBTQ+ Issues, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Panic Attacks, PTSD, Recovery, Relationship Stress, Self-esteem, Self Harm, Sleeping Well, Social Anxiety, Spirtuality, and Student Life. I do take chats on other topics, just not the ones in red.  Please Note that while I take chats on Sexual Health, I do not wish to be asked on advice for self-pleasure, and or talk about that, as it is a personal trigger for me. I hope you understand<3 While I take chats on spirituality, Please don't ask about my religion. I am an Atheist, who believes everyone can make their own choices, and I support Religion.  Lighthearted Chats:  I take lighthearted chats! Want a friend? Want a cookie? Want to just talk to someone? I am your pal <3 Just note I prioritize the support chats <3 Book Recommendations/Ramble Chats-  Need help figuring out what to read next? Read an amazing book you want to tell someone about? Do you want to just ramble about how your favorite character ever did something so mind exploding you can't handle it? I am here! I would love to listen to your favorite genres and favorite books and offer some recommendations, or just to talk about books!  Jeffy Chats- Message me ‘Jeffy Pic’ for a picture of my rabbit Jeffery!  My mental health journey:  Many members ask me about my journey, and what led me here. So I will share a little bit here. I live in a mentally abusive house. I have various health issues, which cause me to be in constant unbearable pain. I am hoping to have surgery this summer to help. I also have problems regulating my blood sugar, so it will drop randomly, which might cause me to have to leave our chat, I don’t want you to have an unconscious listener xD. I was in a sexually abusive relationship for 8 months last year, and I am recovering from anorexia. Rules for my chats/Things to keep in mind:  =>Swearing is okay, please don’t cuss me out  =>I allow age-regressing, but please try to make the messages comprehensible  =>Please don’t just say ‘Hello’, let me know what you'd like to talk about  =>I have PTSD, so if I randomly ask you to refer to another listener, it is because i am triggered. I want you to get the best care possible <3 =>Please don’t send messages in all caps <3 Roles on 7cups (past, current, and on break) =>Verified Listener (current) =>Newbie Hub Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Forum Supporter (On-break) =>LGBTQ Mod (on-break) =>LGBTQ Forum Supporter (on-break) =>Door Keeper (current) =>Anxiety Chat Host (past) =>PAT Smile Spreader (past, although i may come back) =>Safety Patrol (current) =>LRS (past) =>Peer Support (current) Thank you for reading my bio, you amazing lovely wonderful person, and I hope to hear from you soon <3

Hey there I'm Kerry nice to meet you. I have been an active listener since 2016. 

Long-Term inactive. This profile is for record of my work and impact only.  Hello there :).  ​ I'm Katie, glad to meet you!  -💙 I greatly value feedback, please consider leaving a review so I can reflect on our experience💙- Please read through my profile before reaching out to me. ​​​ ⬇️ Availability: I was consistently available from 6pm - 10pm BST, Tuesday to Friday each week, for four years with occasional weeks off!  Though, my availability is additionally signified by the markers in my profile [Green= I am active and in a position to provide support so please reach out to me! Orange= I am online but may be working on other areas of the site meaning I am not exclusively active. Red= I am not online and am not in a position to provide support at the moment].  Expectations of chats and my role within them: As an active listener I take pride in my role of providing support, through maintaining a structure within chats and upholding standards within my therapeutic relationships formed within them. * As such chats are structured to last between 30 minutes and 2 hours with me. * Experiences can be held as a single interaction, inconsistent sessions, or scheduled sessions! Within chats I will take an active role and will exclusively focus on you. * My listening style reflects this!: * I take a person-centred approach to listening, tying in aspects of other therapeutical models to best support everyone. This means that I take a non-judgemental and supportive approach to communicating, so will aim to empower you to be able to help yourself process your emotions and experiences through our conversations.  * Due to this I, unfortunately, do not take casual conversations :) Compatibility/ experiences:  Thank you for considering me to support you :)  In finding a listener it is helpful to seek someone who can provide an insight into your own experiences and outlook, by sharing similar experiences and mindsets.   As such I would like to share some of my experiences to inform your decision.  Many of my experiences fall into these categories :  -Depression -Anxiety -Family stress  -relationship stress -self-esteem -C-PTSD  Though the majority of my experiences fall into those areas they are not limited to the scope of them. I am capable of talking about almost every topic, applying those experiences and lessons to better understand you. As your situation is completely unique I appreciate every chat is a new experience, I'd be very glad to listen to you vent, provide support or simply keep a conversation☺️. It is worth noting during our conversations, though I will try to listen to all experiences, I am not confident in handling some topics so will not take chats with the main focus on them. As such if your topics fall under these (listed) I would recommend searching for another listener who may be better able to respond to your specific needs: -Disordered eating -Drug addiction  -Alcohol addiction  -Sexual health problems   --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Some loving reminders ( ˘ ³˘)♥ ​​-​​​♡ You deserve respect and care, feeling alone or hurt can is a painful thing, regardless of where you are in life you deserve respect and appreciation. -♡ You are capable and wonderful, insecurity and experiences can make you forget what you're truly able to do. Recognise your abilities :) -♡ You deserve great things. Don't let negative thoughts or people overwhelm you, it can be difficult to believe but you deserve a lot from this life. -♡ You can get better! sometimes when you've felt down or hurt for so long it feels like recovery is impossible. But healing is completely possible, and so many people are here for you   -♡ Take care of yourself -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My Roles within the individual and  wider community:  General Role:  * - My most substantial Role on 7 Cups is that of an Active Listener, providing a listening support service to members with a range of issues. As well as providing support to other listeners and being active in the community forums and chatrooms to organise support on a wider scale. You can see my impact in my profile.            Most Recent Roles:  *  - My role is a Trained Active Listener [I regularly recap training and am always searching for the best ways to support people]. * - I am a verified listener [meaning I passed a mock chat to ensure my quality as a listener] * -I am a peer support [which means that I am trained to provide support to listeners after difficult chats] *  - I am the host of sharing circle group session every Tuesday at 3 pm EST/ 8pm GMT. feel free to come alone :) I have hosted for over two years now! Previous Roles: * - I was both a host at one point in time, and co-host of the listener sharing circle (every Sunday from 8am - 9am EST // with a combined time of hosting being five months). * - I was an assigned host for the healthy habits sessions before they got discontinued (I hosted every Tuesday since I first joined till the sessions merged with sharing circles, hosting for 9 months). * - At one point I also hosted friendship room weekly sessions mine was self-care Saturday! (I hosted every Saturday and played a significant role in writing the script, of which is still used to this day). * - I was a dedicated member of the ___ Community, being forum supporter, having this responsibility for 8 months. * - I was a Forum Supporter more significantly for the Positivity and Gratitude sub-community, posting regularly and supporting the community through major contributions site-wide such as hosting a month long event for mental health awareness month, and collaborating with other community leaders in a different shared Forum Event. For three years!  * - I was additionally a Forum Supporter for the needs reply team, wherein I dedicated my time to reducing the needs reply section of forums. * - I was once a contributor to project lightship, an outreach programme, wherein I promoted this website and the valuable work done here through social media. You can find my profile here! : @katie7cups / KatieTheRockOne7cups  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ A message to the community:                    As a fellow listener, I am compassionate about creating a warm welcoming community between both members and listeners alike. I love welcoming new listeners and will always be available to take  listener chats with you all (I'm peer support, please feel free to message me after a hard chat I'm here for you 🤗)    ~ 💙My listener twin is BrightHeart116//love you MishiS💙 ~           To every beautiful listener, I've had the good fortune to meet, thank you! I hope you realise not only how much you matter to me but how much you truly enrich this community and life too!            To every wonderful member, I've come across along my journey, never forget your worth and how splendid you are to know!  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ​​💫To all individuals I've come to accept the loss of, know I'll forever mourn you, You will remain eternal in my heart and the hearts of those who cared💫 ☺️💙☺️Have a lovely day all 💙