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Psychology graduate 🌱 | An aspiring active listener who believes that sometimes, being heard is enough. Here to learn, listen without judgment, and make others feel a little less alone. 💚

Hi, I’m Dej. If you’re carrying a lot, feeling unheard, or caught in cycles that don’t make sense anymore, you’re not alone. I’m here to listen and hold space for you to sort through your thoughts without judgment. I bring 10+ years of experience as a Case Manager supporting individuals and families through major life changes. My heart work is with people navigating relationship challenges and those living with ADHD or autism who need a calmer, more understanding space. This is your time to talk, unload, and be met with patience. Whether it’s relationships, family stress, or just trying to feel steady again, you’ll have someone on the other side truly listening and understanding what you’re saying. You don’t have to hold everything alone — let’s take it one conversation at a time.

Im just here for anyone who needs it

Hello everyone!   

Hello!! I'm a Medical Student here to help and support you!! I'll surely try to help you as much as I can.

Hello there, I am 37 years old. I am from Panama and I love music. :) I am back after one or two years

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It's worth remembering that it is often the small steps, not the giant leaps, that bring about the most lasting change.

Nothing lasts forever. This too shall pass away.  Never say never. 

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I am here to lend an ear :) 

🍎Current update - My usual times are  7:30PM -9;30PM chats bst time for 30 min chats. Reach out to me to request one of these times and I'll see where I can fit you in. I’m experiencing tech issues at the moment and will get back to you ASAP! 29/09/2026 til 30/09/2026 - no appointments on these dates due to work commitments I'm also not free on weekends.  I do not take chats on: Polygamy, Sexual Issues, BDSM, sexual health These are past areas where Ive had experience:  - Community Mentor: Any of mentees welcome to reconnect! I’d love to know how you’re doing and others too! - Content Writer and Editor - Moderator, chatroom supporter for listeners  - LCI host - Forum Supporter - Assistance in running Positivity Corner Sessions Presently I am one of the hosts for Sharing Circle FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. Also I will ask questions that will encourage you to reflect about yourself - for some this may involve looking at parts of themselves that aren’t processed. So if you feel that you aren’t ready to explore things that have hurt you then you may choose to not talk to me. Be clear about what you need is my policy (If you feel you might go over 30 mins it’s best to come in with bullet points about what you want to talk about - e.g if the topic is trauma).  If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *30 min duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️