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Hi! Welcome to my profile and 7 Cups! My name is Sel! I am really passionate about helping others, especially people who have mental health conditions. I've wanted to help people for as long as I can remember.  Even though I identify as a Catholic and have she/her pronouns, I am respectful of all cultures, religions and pronouns. I love to learn about these topics as well! This is a SAFE SPACE for everyone of all pronouns, sexual orientations, religions, and ethnicities!  Honestly, I'm doing this because I genuinely care and I want to make a difference in people's lives. This is your sign to give it time. Life is always changing. Unfortunately, I do not feel comfortable talking about sexual health and casual chats. There are many listeners who are though! If you sent me a personal request and I'm busy, leave me a little message if you can and I'll get back to you! If you are in a crisis, please call these numbers Canada: 833-456-4566 USA: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) (If you are in another country and these don't work, send me a personal request and ask for the number, I will do my research and give it to you). 

Please note that for all requests of one-on-one chats, I will be allotting an hour for each chat in order to manage things well. The timing can differ based on the conversation. Hello! I'm glad you're here. There are sometimes stages in life when you cannot disclose your feelings or thoughts to a close one. 7 Cups of Tea is here for you, providing an anonymous listener and guess what! speaking to a stranger does help you. So, here I'm for you all. A listener for you as I'll like to help you out.

💤 CURRENTLY NOT TAKING IN NEW MEMBERS; I'M ON A SELF-CARE BREAK. THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING. 💤 🌧️ I'm CS, short for Celestial Sapphire. You can also call me Sapphire if you feel like it. I am here to offer whatever kind of conversations you need: random talks, deep conversations, philosophical discussions, current events, our favourite books and films, and how music affects us... whatever helps you, please let me. Never underestimate the power of conversations. So, what do you want to talk about? I'm waiting :) 🌧️ === Polymath. Hardcore stargazer. Sunset worshipper. Astrophile. Pluviophile. Nyctophile. Thalassophile. Logophile. Selenophile. Empath. Capricorn sun. Pisces moon. Scorpio rising/ascendant. Aquarius Venus. INFJ-A Life Path 8  HSP ADHD === THIS IS A POEM THAT I TRY MY BEST AND HARDEST TO LIVE BY EVERY SINGLE DAY :) DESIDERATA Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for, in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. = Max Ehrmann <3 === Please consider the topics I am open to discussing (listed in a separate section). I get members who have concerns about issues I normally would not be comfortable discussing because: * I have never had that experience ergo I won't be able to help you much; * I am not confident that the experiences I had regarding those issues have made me the ideal person to talk to as it might have affected me negatively and I am still in the process of healing from it; and * I am not trained to handle some specific issues about mental health and you'd be better talking to someone who is I don't turn my back on everyone who wants to talk to me, but please manage your expectations :) In case I am unavailable, so many beautiful lightworkers are willing to listen to you and help you process your thoughts and emotions. You can find them here:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ === Graduated from 7 Cups Internship with honours Graduated from the Content Development and Marketing Program with honours Graduated from the Leadership Development Program with honours

If u see 🟢 It means that I'm online and I accept chats :)  This 🟡 It means I'm a little busy, I can still take chats, I'll just will take me more than usual to respond  Red 🔴 means that I'm offline, If you have something important to say, feel free to write it in the chat, I will answer as soon as possible.  Areas Where I Can Offer Support: Anxiety ADHD/Autism Spectrum Depression Disabilities Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) Eating Disorders Exercise Motivation Family Stress General Mental Health  LGBTQ+ Issues Loneliness Obsessive compulsive disorder(OCD) Self-Esteem Self-harm Sleeping Well Social Anxiety  Areas Outside My Knowledge -Bipolar  -Borderline (BPD) -Grief -Personality disorder  -Schizophrenia  I Don't feel comfortable talking about:  ×Breakups ×Domestic Violence  ×Panic attacks ×Relationship stress ×Sexual Health  ×Weight management  ------------------------- 🌟It's Me🌟 Hii! I’m Lotus (he/him), Im 22, queer🏳️‍🌈 My Hobbies: 📚📺📖 Reading books, looking at pintrest and sometimes posting something, watching YouTube, reserching things online, learning new things, participating in online courses, watching movies (horror, sci-fy, weird, gay),  taking pics, writing never consecutively on my journal, starting 3000 hobbies/projects and finishing none. Aspiring content creator. 

READ BIO BEFORE MESSAGING.  due to my roles and personal life, I may not always accept chat requests Browse Listeners I only take *teen* (-18) chats. If you are an adult (+18) member, please reach out to somebody else. I do not speak the Polish language. Only taking chats in English. In order to chat with me, please schedule a time with me to do so (at least 24hrs before appointed time). Due to my work, my availability is not fixed. Chats are to be scheduled according to my weekly schedules. important to know that chat sessions with me last anywhere from 30-40 minutes. I also *do not* take casual chats. 🌺 Hi there! Welcome to my page :) I am Kate, a young woman from Greece. I am currently working in customer service, and i plan on studying psychology or English philology in university. I initially joined this site to get support in regards to my at the time relationship, and decided to also join as a Listener, doing exactly what I plan on having as my profession in a few years from now: be there for people. My main role here is to be there for you no matter what you go through, no matter how big or small it is. And no matter how many roles I take on on this site, I will still be here for you. For that is my main goal, my biggest contribution to this community. 🥰 Some of my hobbies include: dancing, writing, reading books playing (romance, fantasy, mythology and non-fiction), filming videos, playing final fantasy 14 as well as taking pictures. 🌺 I am only available for supportive conversations on the topics listed on my profile. For any other topic, please contact another listener. Thank you! 🌺 My contribution to this community goes beyond being a Listener. Here are some other roles I have taken up: Verified Listener. I have been verified by the community for my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting. That means the community expects of me to maintain professional, kind, open-minded and understanding towards you at all times. Chat Supporter. I am considered a listener who has expertise in the role of a listener and is eligible to provide specialized support to listeners on 7cups in regards to their role/supportive chat. Peer Supporter. I am considered a listener who is capable of listening to fellow listeners after a difficult chat with a member and provide support and show empathy to them after this tough situation they were in. Global Moderator. I ensure a welcoming and safe space for everyone in the member community chat rooms. I am found quite often there, especially in the Teen Community Chatroom. Pass by and say hi! Doorkeeper. I can open and close community rooms. If you need a room opened or closed, you are welcome to contact me. Community Mentor Leader for the Relationship Stress community. I overview the Relationship Stress community and forums. Are you interested in joining the team? Let me know! Safety Patrol Team Member. I flag profiles that go against the website guidelines. 🌺 My status usually indicates: Green: I am online and ready to take a chat. Orange: I am online but busy, which means my responses will be slower - not taking any chats. Red: I am offline - not taking new chats. You can leave me a message to set an appointment during that time. Expected response time is 24-48 hours after your message is sent. If you receive no response within that time range, feel free to send me a message again (I may sometimes forget to respond, so excuse me for that :P) Message me and let's schedule a chat! 🌺

Hello! I'm a trained active listener lending a compassionate ear to those in need. As a volunteer listener, I aim to create a safe space for individuals to share their thoughts with a stranger, providing a confidential outlet for their emotions. Let's embark on this journey together, where your words find a welcoming space to be heard and understood. Please feel free to ping me whenever you see the green dot 🟢 (denotes online status) lighting on my profile.  You can ping when its red 🔴 (offline status) also but the respond will be delayed.  If you have urgent need of 1 on 1 discussion, please Browse listeners from below page.  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ It would be great for me if you could please write a review after completing our chat.  See you Around!! 🤗 ------------------------- Topics I support: Mainly General Mental Health, work stress, student stress, women's issues. I take topics such as casual chats but don't do personal chats. Chats are always member centric. Hence I request please avoid asking me about my personal life. Please respect Boundaries 🙏.  Topics I don’t support: Sexual health, Men's issues, Financial stress, self harm, suicidal thoughts, parenting, bipolar, schizophrenia, panic attacks, relationship stress, domestic violence, loneliness. I don't take these topics as I dont have expertise in these and wont be able to provide desired support. Lived experience: Anxiety, Depression, Panic attacks, Binge eating, weight management, relationship stress, family stress. You can contact me for these but I can provide only limited support because my experience could be different than yours. Am I open to taking on members for long-term listening support? I can provide support until we feel there is need. I am not a psychologist and just a volunteer in this platform. Hence I have my own limitations.  My availability (in EST time) and day(s) if applicable: Any time between 1 am to 1 pm EST, I come online for some duration. Green dot means I am available for chat. You will receive instant response if I am online. Else you can drop message and I will respond when I see it.

"Life is hard, no one makes it out alive." - The Joker But, I'm here for you! let's talk it out : )