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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

HopieRemi
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Due to the nature of my offline work, I do not take 1 on 1 Chats anymore. To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  I am a Listener Coach and Chat Support. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I have limited availability therefore I am not around for 1-1 chats. I support users in group chats and the forums. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. The only exception is chat referrals so If you have been specifically sent to me, feel free to PM me. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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Tyedyedbutterfly65
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        RETIRED FROM 7CUPS  AS OF 9-13-2023 . PLEASE BROWSE LISTENERS. I NO LONGER TAKE CHATS AND I HAVE DROPPED ALL MY BADGES.             ❤ "VOLUNTEERS ARE NOT PAID,NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE WORTHLESS ,BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE PRICELESS "❤             ❤️  I am a Christian- Married-Female ❤️                
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vivelespatates
L Epitome 9 2644
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English will follow  Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute, support et réconfort dans les sujets suivants: - Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique - Autisme et TSA - Automutilation  - Vivre avec un handicap physique - problèmes de santé physique - maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives - Intimidation, taxage, discrimination - Diversité culturelle - LGBTQA+ - Gestion des émotions - Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain. (Je prône l'alimentation intuitive, pas les diètes) - Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes - Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT) - Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise - Troubles du comportement alimentaire - Stress financier - Vie étudiante Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants: - Relations - Ruptures amoureuses - Santé sexuelle - Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme" J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes. Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu. ------------------------- Mentorat J'accepte les nouveaux mentorés. Si tu es un.e écoutant.e intéressé.e à améliorer tes compétences en écoute active, apprendre à mieux répondre aux besoin des membres ou animer des discussions de groupe, contacte moi. Que tu sois nouveau ou perdu sur le site, que tu ais besoin d'aide pour mieux répondre aux besoins des membres, que tu ais besoin de support durant un chat plus difficile ou après un mauvais chat, que tu veules t'impliquer dans des projets ou trouver le rôle qui te convient le mieux, ou simplement que tu veules animer des discussion de groupe ou t'améliorer comme un écoutant, Je peux t'aider!   Spécifiques projets pour lesquels j'offre un plus grand accompagnement car je suis engagé dans les rôles:  *Group Support Mentor* (Support Team Leader for Healthy Living) ------------------------- Hello ! I'm Patate and I'm a verified listener. I am here to listen, support and comfort you in the following subjects: Anxiety, stress, panic attacks - Autism and ASD - Self-harm - Living with a physical disability - physical health problems - chronic pain - chronic and/or degenerative diseases - Intimidation, bullying, discrimination, stigmatisation - Cultural diversity - LGBTQA+ - Managing emotions - Weight management, adopt a healthy lifestyle. (I promote intuitive eating, not diets) - Victims of Abuse, Victims of Crime - Traumatic experience, Post-Traumatic Stress State (PTSD) - Self-employment, starting a business - Eating disorders - Financial stress - Student life.  I DO NOT accept chats on the following topics: - Relationships - breakups and divorces - Sexual health - "Boy/man" or "girl/woman" issues. I currently accept new members, teens and adults. Take note that English is limited and NOT my first language. If you prefer someone fluent, you may want to check for a different listener. Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests with no subject specified will not be answered. Mentoring: I accept new mentees. If you are a listener interested in improving your active listening skills, learning how to better respond to members' needs or facilitating group discussions, contact me. Whether you're new to the site or lost, need help to better meet member needs, need support during or after a bad chat, want to get involved in projects or find the role that suits you best, or simply want to lead group discussions, I can help you!  Healthy Living Team Are you a member or listener interested in leading healthy living discussions?!   The healthy living team is recruiting new discussion leaders to help members to develop good healthy habits, get support and motivation, and discuss topics in relation to their health. We have a lot of approved discussions available for you to lead!  If you are interested, message me in English or French and specify its about HL team or +Click here for more information [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/]!  ------------------------- Twin My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3
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SparkyGizmo
L Paragon 9 726
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Unable to take member chats at this time.  "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think". - Winnie The Pooh I believe that all people need something to do, something to aspire to and someone to love. I believe that angels walk among us, because God is a really busy person-solving lack of world peace, world hunger, etc.  He sends angels to us even in human form to help the cause.  Look for them...now, look harder. I believe what you seek, you shall find. I believe that we all have something to learn from anyone and everyone that we meet. I believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination. I believe that kindness matters, always. Oh well, that's just me.  I BELIEVE ❤️  Enough about me, how about if we talk about you?  Roles on 7 cups Trained Active Listener Verified Active Listener Safety Patrol Team  Peer Pro Peer Support Global Forum Supporter 7 Cups Welcome Committee Pop Up Room Co-host when needed Eyes to the ground. Head bowed. Love in my heart. If we could only just think....."Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together". - Eugene Ionesco . Please let us all be kind to ourselves and to one another.  "Don't be evil" Paul Buchheit "Love Always Comes Back" GlenM's grandmother "...and this is why we can't have nice things around here".  H 😊😁😊 "Keep it real or get the banana peel". Community Mod Anne Proud recipient of the:  Funny Bunny Badge, Biggest Heart Award, Love Award, Kindness Personified Award, Electrifying Energy Badge, "O.A." Original Appreciator Badge, Unofficial "The Receptionist", Spark Hug Badge, "Sing" Badge and Sparkiest Badge (Thank you teammates! I adore you all! ❤️)
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CheeryMango
L Exemplar 1896
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Welcome to my bio!  Please note that my response time is within 3 days.  Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.  Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now. Please connect to our listeners here!  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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Oziris
L Marvel 13 6426
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Hello and welcome to my page. I'm glad you found me. Even though my tender age(26) I lived through a lot of trauma and struggle in my life but i found the way out of the darkness. It taught me a lot about life and i would like to share this wisdom with everyone in need. I'm sure i can provide support for you :). If I'm online feel free to write to me if not send a message and I'll try to answer as quickly as possible. I tend to take every requests personally and I would like to help you in any way I can! I hope you will be satisfied with the little light I may bring into your life :) .  
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SmileyPower
L Proficient 11 261
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*LEFT CUPS* Hello! I'm so glad you have found me on 7 cups of tea. I'm a verified and trained adult-teen listener and I'm here to listen to you and support you in the best way I can. Members You are free to message me and I will try to respond as soon as possible. How I do chats? I'm doing 1 hour for live (scheduled) chats. Listeners Feel free to message me for any questions you might have Projects and roles I'm involved 🔸 Group Moderator (ex) 🔸 Peer Support (ex) 🔸 Verified Listener 🔸 Safety Patrol Team 🔸Support Session Leader (ex) 🔸Safety Patrol Outreach Team (team member) (ex) 🔸 Quality Mentor (ex)
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kindSoul10
L Pinnacle 15 4182
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🌸 [ I'm on a self-care break. My responses might be delayed. ] < Sorry, I can not take 1-1 chats for the moment. Feel free to message me but I do not promise to answer to chat requests. > You've got a heart as loud as lions So why let your voice be tamed? Maybe we're a little different There's no need to be ashamed There's no need to be afraid I will sing with you Hello! I'm glad you found me. I'm a trained active listener and a peer supporter. I'm happy to listen and help people who want me to. Feel free to contact me. == Listener / member created Accolades == [ high kick badge ] : created by SparkyGizmo. High five!
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River
L Paragon 6 2610
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
*** I am really sorry but I am giving up all my site roles as of November due to my health issues and personal life taking over. So I probably wont be responding to messages. *** When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.  -Harriet Beecher Stowe Hello everyone! *Waves* Its me, River. Welcome to my bio <3  For members:  I am here to listen about anything you want to talk about and be there for you. I might not be able to lessen your pain but I will try to share your pain and understand the situation you might be at the moment. I am also totally okay to talk randomly if you are feeling alone and ask icebreaker questions to eachother. I am usually good at chat related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, BPD, forgiveness, grief, trauma and abuse. I. however am not taking sexual chats, sorry about it! <3  For Listeners: I have been around 7cups from more than 2 years, so if you need any help about anything related to 7cups, please dont hesitate to leave a pm. My involvement in 7cups:  Forum Mentor Leader: I work on logistic and organization side of forum team and help with trainings and onboarding of forum team members. I am around if you ever have any questions regarding forums and leadership positions related to it in general. Forum Mentor: I am a global forum mentor <3  Global group mod: I help in group rooms to keep them safe place for everyone. <3  My special twins:  @Love8890 (She is mah soul sistah <3 We also confuse people all around due to same pfp hahahaha! I love ya Sel sel <3 ) @HeyItsRoo (Caught chu :p I miss catchiing youu <3 ) *passes out cookies for reaching till the end of mah bio*  
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Emily619
L Marvel 14 2056
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This is a test, a test to see if you are a human. Please note if something applies to you: Have you ever eaten a booger long past your childhood? Have you ever made a small, weird sound when you remembered something embarrassing? Have you ever purposely lower-cased the first letter of a text to come across as sad or disappointed? Have you ever ended a text with a period as a sign of aggression? Have you ever laughed or smiled when someone said something unpleasant to you, and you wondered the rest of the day why you reacted that way? Have you ever put on a pair of pants, and then realized much later that there was a loose sock smushed up against your thigh? Have you ever tried to guess someone else's password so many times that it locked their account? Have you ever had a nagging feeling that one day you will be discovered as a fraud? Have you ever hoped that there was some ability you hadn't discovered yet that you were just naturally talented at? Have you ever broken something in real life, and then found yourself looking for an "undo" button in real life? Have you ever marveled at how someone you thought was so ordinary could suddenly become so beautiful? Have you ever stared at your phone, smiling like an idiot while texting someone? Have you ever subsequently texted that person the phrase, "I'm staring at the phone, smiling like an idiot"? Have you ever been tempted to, and gave into that temptation, of looking through someone else's phone? Have you ever had a conversation with yourself, and then suddenly realized you're a terrible person to yourself? Has your phone ever run out of battery in the middle of an argument, and it sort of felt like the phone was breaking up with both of you? Have you ever thought that working on an issue between you and yourself was futile, because it should just be more natural than this, or this is supposed to happen just naturally? Have you ever realized that very little, in the long run, just happens naturally? Have you ever woken up blissfully, and suddenly been flooded by the awful remembrance that someone had left you? Have you ever lost the ability to imagine a future without a person that no longer was in your life? Have you ever looked back on that event with the sad smile of autumn and the realization that futures will happen, regardless? Congratulations, you have now completed and passed the test. You are human. Want to know who has the best 7 Cups profile? Click here [http://7cups.com/11840748]!
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kindLemonade
L Genius 4 1160
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I am not taking on any new member chat. Please find other listeners >here< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Due to commitments offline, I am unable to support you as much as I wish to. I am currently working full-time, so it's difficult to find time to give you the best of me, as a listener. Thank you for reading. Progress Not Perfection  When life gives you Lemonade, practice mindfulness ‣Free Mindfulness Exercises > [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]HERE [https://www.7cups.com/exercises/mindfulness/]< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] What are your favorite self-care activities?  TWINNIE ‣ 🐺 [https://emojipedia.org/emoji/%F0%9F%90%BA/] Wolfie Twinnie: @DigitalKnight ‣ 🎶 Events Twinnie: @Star996  ‣ ❤️ [https://emojipedia.org/red-heart/#:~:text=A%20classic%20red%20love%20heart,other%20for%20two%20consecutive%20weeks.] Room Supporter Twinnie: @MilaTheListener ‣ 👽 Alien Twinnie: @mentalspace7cup [https://www.7cups.com/@mentalspace7cup]   ‣ 🎨 Multipotentialite [http://www.ted.com/talks/emilie_wapnick_why_some_of_us_don_t_have_one_true_calling?language=en#t-181079] Twinnie:  @AriadneLove (she made my profile picture!) ‣ 👭🏼 Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/PeerSupport_397/UpcomingPeerSupportTrainingDiscussions_253073/]Twinnie: @unique73 ‣💅 Self-care & Higs Twinnie: @jovialButterfly6752 MY PAST ROLES  I am a verified listener, mentor, and global forum supporter on 7cups ACADEMY ‣Academy Mentor for CDM (Content Development & Marketing) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ContentVolunteerTeam_198/ContentDevelopmentandMarketingProgramCDM_2192/] & GLDD ‣Graduate for GLDD, LDP & Internship, QLP & CDM (with honors)  ‣Project agent for LDP SUB-COMMUNITY ‣Co-Support Team Leader for Healthy Living ‣Chatroom Moderator for Healthy Living, Positivity & Gratitude, Mindfulness Center OTHERS ‣Peer Supporter ‣Listener Chatroom Supporter ‣Doorkeeper ‣Discussion Host for Listener Discussion, Peer Support Discussion, ALE sessions, Pop-up events, Past: LCI, LSC, SC ‣Others: Team Lightship, Project Agent for Sharing Circle & Listener Sharing Circle 
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Mercylistensalways
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I'm Mercy. I am here for you. It is my pleasure to support you.   
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