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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

HealTheHealer

Sage 10
Listens to Over 18
in last week
**SELF-CARE BREAK**_______________________________________**BIO NOT UP TO DATE**_______________________________________Currently only active on TeenielandRead about DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) here & read about how to support someone hereSharing tea with a fascinating stranger is one of life's true delights"Everybody changes every day, and some things are more devastating than others, but we never are the same, and there are two ways to deal with these changes: you either accept them or you fight them like hell all the way.”"You survived the abuse, you will survive the recovery""Look at everything you have overcome, don't give up now""I don't have to be an expert, I just have to care""Laughing is healing""Healing begins when someone bears witness. I saw you. I believe you."_______________________________________ My roles here on 7 cups: -Teen Listener: I listen to our teen members -Adult Listener: I listen to our adult members-Room Supporter (Trauma Community): I help keep the room supportive -Chatroom Moderator (Family&Caregivers, Newbie Hub): I moderate the rooms to keep it safe for everyone -Listener Room Supporter: I help keep the listener rooms supportive -Listener Sharing Circle Host: I host the Listener Sharing Circles -Listener Discussion Host: I host listener discussions to help us all grow-Teen Transitioning Mentor: I help teens before, during and after they transition to the adult side-Project Agent: I help with projects on improving the Trauma SubCommunity-Safety patrol: I flag accounts that don't meet the 7cups guidelines (pm me when you find an account that needs to be flagged)-Dutch Translation Team: I help to translate 7cups into Dutch-Team Lightship: Former known as social soldiers I spread compassion on social media-Doorkeeper: I can open and close rooms-Chat Support: I support our listeners with difficult ongoing chats_______________________________________Hosting schedule: EST -Listener Sharing Circle: Tuesday 2pm -Pop-up sessions Teen Community Room (quizzes) -Pop-up sessions (teen) Family&Caregivers room ______________________________________Chat Topics I DO take: -Trauma/PTSD -Eating disorder -DID-Anxiety -Bullying -Domestic violence -Sexual assault/abuse -Family stress -Panic attacks -Parenting -Schizophrenia -Self-Harm _______________________________________Chat topics I DON'T take: -Alcohol/drug use -Breakups -Relationship stress -Work stress_______________________________________My amazing listener twins are: JustOneMoreEpisode   DigitalKnightActing listener twin: FristoRoom Twinnie: Olivia210A listener twin is any fellow listener with whom you feel very connected and who has agreed to be your listener twinIt needs to be mutual Thank you for reading my very long bio and I hope to connect with you soon 
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2007
Netherlands

positivePumpkin22

Virtuoso 2
Listens to Teens & Over 18
in last week
Hiii!! I'm sooo glad that you decided to check out my profile. Feel free to message me anytime!!Members, I appreciate that you have reached out for support. If my status is  Green  -- go ahead and send me a message. I'm looking forward to hear from you!If my status is Yellow -- Im sorry, I cant take anymore live chats.If my status is  Red  -- you can send me a message as long as I am not on a break and I'll get back to you as soon as I canI am so sorry but I Do Not Take chats on sexual topics and LGBTQ+ because i am not the best person to address those issues, you can find another amazing listener here. Thank you for understanding.If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource. If you have questions or wanna know more about active listening, 7cups site navigation (what is what, and where you can find something), Leadership development program, internship program, teen transitioning (teens moving to adult side on their 18th birthday), becoming an adult-teen listener - hit me up & don't hesitate to ask away!While you are waiting for me, try to do my happy dance, might make you feel a lil bit better!!Welcome To My Unicorn IslanddI am Hanna, a 9-teen year old coffee and book lover who looovvee to connect with people and understand their thoughts, feelings and emotions, so dont hesitate to poke my inbox.  I'm enthusiastic about exploring new things and ideas, I like to push through boundaries and comfort zones and is constantly on the road to be the best version of myself. I am passionate in psychology, business and teaching field. I also love martial arts, especially karate.My Roles On 7cups :# Adult- teen listener - I listen to both adults and teen and offer support at the teen side of 7cups. # Safety patrol member - I flag profiles and ensure safety on 7cups. If you see any profile (username, bio or profile picture), you can pm me and I can flag them.# Teen transition mentor - I mentor teens who are aging up before, during and after their transition to adult side. If  you have any questions about teen transition or becoming a teen transition mentor - leave me a message!# Group Support Outreach - (Aging up Program Outreach Team) I reach out to people eligible to join ATL and Teen Transition Mentor team. If you or someone know is eligible for applying for ATL or teen transition mentor - leave a message and I can give you the resources!# Peer support - I support listeners after a difficult chat by providing emotional support. Feel free to message me if you are looking for support after a difficult chat, when I am online (either my status is green or you saw me in a group less than 2 minutes ago)I am happiest when i can be myself, sing and dance around the streets like there is no one around.    I also love to sing a song out of absolute nowhere and do my tiny dance moves.  I love it when i have the space and freedom to choose my passion and do things that makes me happy that is my happy place. that is my unicorn island. a place where i am just me! and surrounded by lots of awwwesome people.7 cups is one of my unicorn islands.  I love the community and the fabulous people here at 7cups 7 cups provided me with a platform to reach out to people and help them and I am so grateful for that.                                                                 i believe that everybody deserves a chance to be listened and helped. I believe thats it's very important that everyone has a shoulder to cry on and a body to hug. I want you to feel like you can tell me anything on your mind, feel heard, understood and never judged.  I'll always be here. You can message me anytime. I answer everyone in the best way I can.I love all of you and I care for all of you. i am fighting my own battle everyday.  i know what it means to be alone.i understand you. i think you makes sense. maybe you dont see it now but in larger picture, your problems makes sense, so do you.MY  LISTENER   TWINS :   @carefreeSea8899  - My first friend here on 7cups. She is the kindest and sweetest person you will ever come across. <3@DreamTouch - she is very kind, very sweet and has a very beautiful soul. <3 @PinkAward - she is awesome, genuine and very open minded . <3@enchantedlove- she is very friendly, approachable, and open minded. I'm so glad I met her <3MY  BEST FRIENDS :  @SammyRocksListener - she is a very cheerful, adorable and a really cool girl. she makes everyday of your life just better and beautiful with her infectious cheerfulness <3@JojoRK - Jojo is just amazzinnggggg. She is super friendly and one of my good friends here.Some of the few people Who Are Important To Me :@Goodhomespring3 - She is one of the best people i have met here. An angel.@Sydney113 - Syd is an amazing friend, beautiful inside out.@benny0 -- benny is just increddibblleee. An awesome friend, someone you can always count on.@comfortableEyes5 -- A wonderful person filled with positivity.Thank you for all the work you do here <3@DontFearToDream -- Dream is the definition of refreshing, positive and encouraging listener. They never fail to bright up my days with their amazing self and infinite compassion. Thank you so much for being the incredible, wonderful person you are. <3oof i love all of you guys sooo muchhh!!! 
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1874
United Arab Emirates

WendyBird15

Genius 10
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
Not accepting New Chats at this time! Please feel free to reach out to another one of our great Listeners for support. YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!*Please Note that I have limited availability at this time but please feel free to reach out and I will be happy to set up a time a time for us to chat."No Act of KINDNESS, no matter how small is ever wasted"Hello, I am so glad that you have found me and I want to be here and help you with whatever struggle you are going through. I can't solve your problems, but I can offer a safe place for you to open up and talk about what is going on. I don't have set available days or times when I am online but most likely to be found in the evening est. If you want to chat and I am not online please feel free to leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. I would greatly appreciate it if you would leave a review after a chat as it helps me as a listener learn and grow. If you are looking for other listeners you can also reach out to My very awesome Listener Twins: musicalMagic, and TsukinoTheHag . Without them I wouldn't have gotten this far in my journey.
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3486
United States

MistyMagic

Epitome 8
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
Hi,Misty here! "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience of lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families and relationships, love, school, college or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, diets, eating disorders, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need."If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back?At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7Cups, and I may not respond to any pm's or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax. ONE STEP AT A TIME"We all have different size footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life.Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction.Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while,Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves.But each and every footstep is important in so many ways.Ways that we may not even know about.Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a timeButterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a smallbrown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time!Quote of AcceptanceWhen we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, when we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, when we accept it, it becomes an adventure, When we don't accept other's bad behavior towards us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness.When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !!Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a smallbrown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time!"Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli)
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2592
United Kingdom

Tazzie

Pinnacle 9
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
Hello! I am the Subcommunity Coordinator on 7 Cups! Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I would be honored to help out.  I am unable to take on chat requests. Please connect to our listeners here! 
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888
United States

lucy2

Veteran 5
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
Hello my friend, Apologies, I am on a self care break from 22/08/21 - 01/09/21 and unable to take chats, you can still leave me a message but I won't be able to reply until then. I'm so pleased you have found me on 7cups of Tea! I'm a trained Teen and Adult Listener a  Teen Transitioning Mentor Quality Mentor  Teen Quality Mentor  and I look forward to supporting you. I hope you will feel comforted knowing there is someone here who understands your needs and worries and I look forward to chatting with you. If my status is shown as offline or busy, please message me and I will get back to you asap. Chat soon Lucy2      
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1637
United Kingdom

bookworm4

Marvel 1
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
Hi there! Welcome to 7 Cups :) I’m a trained active teen and adult listener and I like to support people struggling with about anything. I came here to find help myself and I did and it made me feel a lot better and I want to do the same for others by listening to them. I love to read and listen to music. You can vent out, think out loud, talk about anything you like and I will be here to listen to you without judging you at all as I know how hard it is to open up. I want you to feel safe with me while you talk and know that I am here for you. I am: * A Teen Ambassador * An Adult - Teen Listener Just know that I’m here for you :)
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2478
Pakistan

Mango3

Genius 12
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
Hi everyone, my name is Mango! I am a Quality Ambassador for 7 Cups with a focus on the Listener Coaching Team and the Care Team.  (Feel free to check out more about the respective teams by clicking them)   I am currently not active in the community to take member chats, but we have brilliant Listeners in the community who would love to listen and emotionally support you. Find them HERE.   Saturdays and Sundays are normally my "off" time away from 7 cups. If you send me a message I might only reply back to you very late or on Monday   Feel free to message me for the following things:  Want to know more about the Listener Coaching Team or apply for it (must be a Mentor). Want to know more about the Care Team or apply for it. Considering being a Quality Mentor on the site. As a teen, you want to get more involved in the Quality Track.    ●∘◦❀ My roles on 7 cups ❀◦∘● Quality Ambassador Active Listening Test 2 Grader Adult-Teen Listener Community Mentor  Quality Mentor & Teen Quality Mentor  Quality Mentor Leader for Listener Coaching Team and Care Team Safety Patrol Team Teen Transition Mentor  
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1662
South Africa

pamharley003

Marvel 10
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
***** Not taking any 1-1 chats right now please use https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find a Listener.***** Will not take any chats with sex of any nature  I am sorry *****                         ***** I do take chat till after  6 P.m. ( Eastern Time only ) ***** ****** I do not take chats on Sunday ( self care day )*****  Adult and Teen Listener I am  a long term listener and a verfied listener on 7 cups. I also have the door keeper badge. Chat's I do take: Anxiety BipolarBorderline (BPD) BreakupsBullying Chronic Pain Depression Diabetes Disabilities Domestic Violence Eating Disorders Exercise MotivationFamily Stress Financial Stress Forgiveness General Mental Health Getting Unstuck Grief LonelinessManaging Emotions Panic AttacksParenting PTSD/Trauma Relationship Stress Self-Esteem Sleeping Social Anxiety Spirituality Student Life Weight Management Work Stress *** I will repsond back to Your PM'S when I return online ****
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1098
United States

soulsings

Epitome 8
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php    https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/MindfulnessSupportCommunity_106/ResourceLibrary_1062/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time. If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest  https://www.7cups.com/online-therapy/?ob=1 The other resource is various therapy topics  https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/  
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3158
United States

Amphios

Genius 12
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last week
-Retired-You can call me Abhe!Greetings, I'm so glad that you've reached out for help. I know that life can seem like a complicated journey sometimes. During this time, it is not unusual to feel overwhelmed, confused or frustrated. My goal is to provide comfort and care for you as well as a safe and non-judgemental space to talk about everything and anything. Sometimes we just want someone to listen, and even that alone can be therapeutic. I am willing to listen to you and help you understand your thoughts and feelings better. You don't have to feel you are alone on the journey.
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1590
India

GrahZeymahzin

Exemplar 12
Listens to Teens &amp; Over 18
in last month
Note: At this time I am unable to have any live conversations, if you message I can respond when I am available, but responses will not be immediate.     Please read my whole bio before messaging me.    Green: I am available and currently wanting to take chats!!Orange: I am online but I may be focusing my attention on other things. I might be able to respond to chats, though replies may not be immediate. Please book me for a time I will be availableRed: I am offline or not able to take chats at the moment. Please book me for a time I will be available. Heya everyone! I am Grah, an Adult-Teen listener, as well as a leader on 7Cups. Reaching out to a listener is a huge step towards being able to feel better. Just taking this step shows your strength and I am proud of you! A little about me! My name is Haley, and I am 18. I have bought my first house, and I have 2 playful kittens to keep me company. I identify within the LGBTQ community and support anyone else that is also part of the community. I love to work on my writing, whether it be through poetry or stories/books. I’ve only published a short story before, but my hope is to one day be able to publish a book (or multiple). I also play the violin, and I am slowly learning the guitar. I volunteer as a crisis counselor with the Crisis Text Line (Though I will NOT support those in crisis here on 7Cups) My past has given me a history with a variety of mental health challenges, including ADHD, Autism, Anxiety, Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder, and self-harm. I was able to take my experience, where I went from rock bottom, to where I am. I’m still fighting, but I am fighting now for those who need it to get away from rock bottom. Though I am focused to help others and to focus on everything I do, I'm still human. I do ask that anyone who messages me is willing to be respectful of any boundaries set, and willing to show respect.  About my listening style!~ As a listener, I am here to listen and support, but I am not here to give advice. When I begin a chat with a long term member, I like to start out by setting a plan. This plan is what keeps the chats structured to your individual needs. Everyone is different, so no two people will get the same benefits from any listener. The chats that I accept are those working on recovery in mental health. My goal as a support is to provide a safe place and a supportive ear, but I'm not here to convince you to work towards feeling better. You are always the number one factor. Only you can decide whether you are ready to start the process of recovery or not. You write your own story.  People might tell you that it won’t last forever. I know it seems like it does. I once believed the same thing, and I understand that it is the most defeating thought there is. There will be an escape for everyone, but there’s no telling when it will come. It might be tonight, or it might be in several years. And until then, you have a safe place that you are welcome to anytime. I strive to make sure that as a listener I can make our space feel like the safety that you need through anything that happens. If you choose to send me a message, make yourself comfortable. Feel free to bring your virtual comfort items into my PMs to create whatever you need to be comfortable, whether it be blankets, pillows, or a teddy bear. I’m always a PM away, even if I’m not online at the moment. I hope that you can feel safe to rant or whatever you need. 
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2180
United States