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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

kindSoul10
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🌸 [ I'm on a self-care break. My responses might be delayed. ] < Sorry, I can not take 1-1 chats for the moment. Feel free to message me but I do not promise to answer to chat requests. > You've got a heart as loud as lions So why let your voice be tamed? Maybe we're a little different There's no need to be ashamed There's no need to be afraid I will sing with you Hello! I'm glad you found me. I'm a trained active listener and a peer supporter. I'm happy to listen and help people who want me to. Feel free to contact me. == Listener / member created Accolades == [ high kick badge ] : created by SparkyGizmo. High five!
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gentleLight37
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Hi! I'm glad you're looking for a listener, because that is such an important step, if it's your first time or your millionth time chatting with a listener. I want to hear about your problems and what you're struggling with so that I can help you in any way I can. I was in a severe car accident many years ago and have struggled with various issues since, including broken bones, a concussion that took a while to heal, and PTSD, depression, and anxiety. I've learned a lot during my recovery and really want to share this or help other people in any way I can. Besides being a listener, I'm a dancer and a nature lover. Best wishes. <3
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Power14
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          Hey awesome people  I am Neal . I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.                             For members :I'm glad you've taken a huge step.  it's really difficult to move a first step.  you've started looking for help. I'm here to listen whatever is in your mind. I believe every story is worth sharing and your all emotions are valid. We can discuss your issues may be i wont be able to help in issues but discussing issues can produce solutions. If you are going to text me then make sure you're in mood to take things in postive way. Anybody can help you only if when  you try to help yourself. Nobody is having magic wand which can heal your issue in no time.                                                  For listeners :                                                 I am a quality mentor you can always reach me if you need any help regarding this website or you need any guidance.                                                  Projects I'm supporting                                                  Quality mentor                                                  Peer support                                                  Welcoming team                                                 Translation project                                                  Listener verifier team                                                 If you need any assistance in these projects you can contact me.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     
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EricaAnne
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Hi! Glad to see you on 7cups! Feel free to chat if you are feeling down and need someone to talk to. I might not personally relate to everything that you are going through, but I will do my best to empathise and put myself in your shoes. I would love to get to know more about you and hopefully our chat will help you feel a little better. ☺️ Disclaimer: I am not taking general conversational chats at this time. Respectfully, Please find another listener if you would like someone to have a casual chat with. The following are not appreciated:  Trolls   Insensitivity  Flirting or other types of inappropriate behaviour I hope to establish a comfortable listening environment and dedicate my time to those who genuinely need someone to lend a listening ear. Thank you for understanding, and I can't wait to chat with you!     
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PhoenixAsh
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About Me Hey there! Thanks for checking out my profile ^-^ My name is Karina, and I’ve been an active listener on 7 Cups since March 2016. My main topics are LGBTQ+ and anxiety, but I’m open to chat about mostly anything! Check out the list of topics at the bottom of my bio for more info. A few extra facts about me… I’m 18 My dog’s name is Rusty! Gryffindor INFP-T Pronouns: she/they My Roles Chat Support I can provide support for other listeners who are stuck on chats. Feel free to pm anytime, or you can see when I’m generally online here [http://phoenixash.youcanbook.me]! Forum Mentor I moderate and create content for the forums - you can reach out if you need a post edited, or if you have any questions about the forums. I spend most of my time in the LGBTQ+/MOGII Subcommunity [/home/lgbtq]! Support Team Mentor I manage the LGBTQ+/MOGII Support Rooms and their Support Teams. You can pm me if you have any questions about the room or would like to join the team! Adult-Teen Listener Though I’m an adult, I spend most of my time on the teen side of the site and can also take teen member chats! My Listener Twins TsukinoTheHag [/@TsukinoTheHag] [inactive]: My very first listener twinnie, who showed me what it means to be a humble leader and to always prioritise the people on the site. silverSun14 [/@silverSun14] [inactive]: My Project Blossom buddy, who learnt by my side and always supported my goals. CranberryPineapples [/@CranberryPineapples] [inactive]: My menteeberry, to whom I could always bounce off my ideas for the teen community, and who always strove to make the site more enjoyable for everyone. Karrot [/@Karrot]: My twinnokid, who accepts that I’m still not an oldie despite what my age may say.
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Kanga
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"​To love means loving the unlovable. To forgive means pardoning the unpardonable. Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless." ​-Gilbert K. Chesterton Hi there! My name is Roo, and welcome to my profile! For members:  I am so glad that you've decided to reach out and talk about whatever it is that is on your mind! I know how scary and intimidating it can seem sometimes, but just know that I am here to provide a safe, positive, and nonjudgmental space for you to talk ❤ The topics I specialize in are LGBTQ+ related issues, and anxiety, but I promise to do my best to help you no matter what you may be struggling with! I also am willing to talk about issues regarding sexuality, or issues regarding sex. This does NOT mean I am willing to engage in a sexual chat WHATSOEVER. Some topics I'm not so good at are eating disorders and trauma. Sometimes there is a better suited listener, and I just want to make sure you are receiving the best support possible! If you feel we might not make a good fit, you can click >here [/notes/7cups.com/BrowseListeners]< to browse for other listeners. I DO NOT take chats on self-harm, as these are triggering topics for me. Thank you for understanding! For Listeners: I am also a member of the verifiers team, so I can conduct a mock chat with you to help you earn the verified listeners badge. To learn about this and apply for a mock chat, click >here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerProjectsampTeams_148/VerifiedListenersProjectVLProjectQualityProject_685/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]< I am a former Quality Teen Star, Support Team Leader, Feed Team Leader, and Chat Supporter/Peer Supporter. If you have any questions regarding to this, don't hesitate to ask! ​​​​  About me My name is Roo and my pronouns are she/her. I live in the USA with my 4 chicken children (and my family of course). I love to dance, read, listen to music, and to paint. I am a self-proclaimed literature JUNKIE and quote enthusiast. I consider myself to be an advocate for mental illness and equality. I believe everyone deserves to feel loved and respected 💕 I am a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, and I support people of all sexual/gender/romantic identities.🌈 I joined 7 cups in May of 2017 while seeking support during a difficult time in my life. In October of 2017 I signed up to be a listener, in hopes of making a positive impact on other's lives, and surrounding myself with love and compassion. I am very passionate about the 7 cups community, and I am always looking for someplace to improve myself :) Lovely person reading my bio, here are some things I want you to know: You are strong. Stronger than you could ever know. You are alive, right now, at this very moment! Do you know how much strength it takes to just be alive? ⭐ You are beautiful. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Often times we lack the ability to see the beauty in ourselves that others see in us. Regardless of how you look, you are beautiful, inside and out.  ⭐ You are worth it. Your self worth can not be measured by anything anyone says, or what your brain tells you either! You deserve love, happiness, and respect. You deserve to get better. ⭐ I believe in you. I think that everyone has the ability to heal, to pursue their goals, and to have good mental health. You are no different! No matter what is going on in your life, or how difficult your struggles might be, I am rooting for you! ⭐ I am here for you. We all come from different walks of life, and I will never judge you because of yours. I am here to support you and offer kindness, sympathy, and compassion. I hope that we can be friends! ⚠This account is a SAFE SPACE for ALL. Anyone who tries to invade that safe space WILL be blocked & reported IMMEDIATELY.⚠
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YayyySphere
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*Not taking on new members at the moment due to time constraints and for personal reasons*  Hey I'm Sphere and I have finished my internship on 7 Cups. I'm a 19 year old who has just graduated from High School! :) I've been through a lot, and I specialize in Self-Harm chats, even though you're free to talk to me about anything else! :) I'll definitely try my best to help out. Feel free to start a chat with me if I'm online, or you can leave me a message if I'm offline or busy. I'll get back to you as soon as I'm available! :) Also feel free to drop me a message if you would just like a casual chat! ^.^   Main Involvements: ☞Quality Mentor Leader ☞Teen Quality Mentor ☞Group Support Quality Mentor ☞Support Room Mentor (Student Support) ☞Forum Mentor (Student Support Community)   Listening Strengths: ✦Anxiety ✦Depression ✦Managing Emotions ✦School Stress ✦Self-Harm ✦Social Anxiety   Shoutouts!ツ @221Skye [https://www.7cups.com/@221Skye]-The best messiest person ever who is really awesome at the same time! ◕‿◕ @BrilliantShoe [https://www.7cups.com/@brilliantshoe]-My fantastic friends whom I've known here on 7 Cups! :) Keep on being cool and awesome! ❤ @ [http://7cups.com/@arxxxh]ArwaS [http://7cups.com/@ArwaS]- Vulvy, thanks for being such an awesome friend, hehe I'm lucky to have such a friend like you! Stay amazing buddy ^_^
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Pandette
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**I will be UNAVAILABLE until further notice & I sincerely apologize to anyone that is looking to have a 1-on-1 chat with me. Sending love and hugs your way!** Hello everyone and welcome to our lovely home, here at 7 Cups of Tea! I'm glad you decided to join us for whatever reason it may be! I just wanted to let you know that you are always welcome here and I know that I will never judge any of you. A little bit about myself: well, I was in depression for 7 Years and was able to overcome all of the negativity and hardships. During this time, I was also self-harming and addicted to various drugs/alcohol. There were tons of misdiagnoses. Oh, it was not a good time for anyone but I am here to tell you that things do get better! I was able to get out of my long-term depression and you can too! You can face and conquer any problem that comes about! I've been through a lot in life and faced many issues: depression, eating disorders, panic attacks, breakups, traumatic experiences, work-related stress, self-harm, sexual abuse, alcohol and drug abuse, bullying, family stress, phobias, and sleeping well! If you have anything on your mind at all, please do not hesitate to send me a message. Sending lots of love and very warm hugs your way. And never forget, I will always be here if you need me. Love you all so very much!
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AutumnLeigh
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politeSun
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Dissolving Love [https://pothi.com/pothi/book/ebook-azra-sardar-ahmad-dissolving-love] Hello This is Sun. Looking forward to a conversation with you, so that we can feel better together.  (I dont take chats on LGBTQ+ and Sexual issues)
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VinylFly
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Proud triplet of the terrific trio @InternalAcceptance and @Chassymom    Former leader of the addiction support team and have since passed the torch on to @InternalAcceptance. So proud of my amazing tripply <3 Hi there, I'm AJ but you can call me vinyl, viny or fly. Welcome to my listener profile. Glad you're here with us on 7 cups.    I'm a verified active listener. I'm happy to support you on your journey and help you navigate the bumps in the road you may come across. I've driven over many myself and have acquired much wisdom and compassion along the way. Message me if you're looking for a caring, wise and open-minded set of ears. I'm passionate about helping people in need and am currently pursuing a Bachelor's degree with a major in Psychology and minor in Sociology. I've spent most of my career working with youth with special needs and have recently been spending much of my time volunteering with a local peer-based harm reduction group. I'm happy to chat about whatever's on your mind but I have the most knowledge in the areas of anxiety and panic attacks, drug/alcohol use and harm reduction, autism, ADHD, chronic illnesses and disabilities, coping with strong emotions, sexual orientation and gender identity, and post-traumatic stress.   Please note that I take 1-1 chats in 1 hour time blocks. I do this to make sure that everyone has a chance to be listened to. I'll let you know when there are 10 minutes remaining in your chat so it's easier to start wrapping things up. Looking forward to hearing from all you lovely people. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help when you need it. Through our struggles, we can learn how to harness our strengths         
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glassmarble
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Hello! ~ I'm glad you found me (or that we were connected). I'm here to talk to you with whatever you're going through. Our conversation will be a safe place to share your feelings without being judged. I will always listen and try my best to be here for you and help you helping yourself. You're not alone! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Some things about myself: You can call me Tanja if you want to. I love to help others, and my friends say about me that I am calm, friendly and empathic. In my free time I like reading, writing stories and poems, singing and daydreaming. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Just message me if you want to talk and I'll try to answer as soon as I can. Take care!
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